Girl 1: I see her, get a drink of water, and open her smoothly without hesitation. It feels so good to be smooth! I have no idea what's happening but for some reason, I'm doing well. She is absolutely adorable and I can feel myself welling up with tender feelings and it must have come across in my vibe. I falter a few times but I do get the number. I say goodbye, she tries to shake my hand, but I give her a hug instead which she eagerly gives back.
I head to my other school.
Girl 2: Annnnnnnd...SPLAT! Went my vibe. I open her and she responds so well...but then as soon I ask a question, I sound slightly needy like I want the answer. We talk for two more seconds while she walks ahead of me not looking back. I say goodbye.
To improve on: ask questions for your own amusement without needing to know the answer
Girl 3: I think I actually hit on this girl before in the gym, but girls don't usually have a good memory of me hitting on them. Anyway, she is uncomfortable the whole time but I try to defuse it by remaining nonchalant. It doesn't work but we get into some conversation about her playing the violin and wanting to learn the cello. I leave.
I go to class for three hours.
Girl 4: Another girl I hit on before. Instead of pretending like I've never seen her, I am startled and make the mistake of acknowledging her. She doesn't remember me. It is awkward as hell and my mind is racing like a Roman charioteer to exit this in a clean manner. I say something and leave.
To improve on: You recognize them? Oh, that's nice. HIT ON THEM ANYWAY!
Girl 5: She is super freaked out and my weak quiet voice is not helping. She was too far away to shake hands and it would have been clunky and supplicating to go to her to shake it so no contact either. Funny thing, there was a lady sitting across from us who chuckled a little when I approached. I eject like a pilot in a burning plane. On to the next one!
Girl 6: I'm comfortable again, but there is no tension or playfulness or teasing or anything enticing. Except for one bit: she tries to learn where I am from and I say: "You've never heard of it so why should I tell you?" "Tell me!" We do this for a little bit and I make the mistake of telling her. I do get the number but I'm sure that it's not solid. But who cares?
To improve on: when you tease, don't relent
Girl 7: A little vision, I've seen her before but this is the first time that I've approached. I tell her that she has beautiful eyes. Thanks me. She starts to walk off in another direction. I am asking supplicatory questions and am being supplicatory following her. Eventually, she walks ahead of me down a corridor. I don't want to head back and slink off in defeat but she is completely ignoring my presence. Eventually, she reaches her destination and I walk back. I try to find an eighth girl but no luck and I go home.
Summary: calmer, less scripted, sexier, slower
I head to my other school.
Girl 2: Annnnnnnd...SPLAT! Went my vibe. I open her and she responds so well...but then as soon I ask a question, I sound slightly needy like I want the answer. We talk for two more seconds while she walks ahead of me not looking back. I say goodbye.
To improve on: ask questions for your own amusement without needing to know the answer
Girl 3: I think I actually hit on this girl before in the gym, but girls don't usually have a good memory of me hitting on them. Anyway, she is uncomfortable the whole time but I try to defuse it by remaining nonchalant. It doesn't work but we get into some conversation about her playing the violin and wanting to learn the cello. I leave.
I go to class for three hours.
Girl 4: Another girl I hit on before. Instead of pretending like I've never seen her, I am startled and make the mistake of acknowledging her. She doesn't remember me. It is awkward as hell and my mind is racing like a Roman charioteer to exit this in a clean manner. I say something and leave.
To improve on: You recognize them? Oh, that's nice. HIT ON THEM ANYWAY!
Girl 5: She is super freaked out and my weak quiet voice is not helping. She was too far away to shake hands and it would have been clunky and supplicating to go to her to shake it so no contact either. Funny thing, there was a lady sitting across from us who chuckled a little when I approached. I eject like a pilot in a burning plane. On to the next one!
Girl 6: I'm comfortable again, but there is no tension or playfulness or teasing or anything enticing. Except for one bit: she tries to learn where I am from and I say: "You've never heard of it so why should I tell you?" "Tell me!" We do this for a little bit and I make the mistake of telling her. I do get the number but I'm sure that it's not solid. But who cares?
To improve on: when you tease, don't relent
Girl 7: A little vision, I've seen her before but this is the first time that I've approached. I tell her that she has beautiful eyes. Thanks me. She starts to walk off in another direction. I am asking supplicatory questions and am being supplicatory following her. Eventually, she walks ahead of me down a corridor. I don't want to head back and slink off in defeat but she is completely ignoring my presence. Eventually, she reaches her destination and I walk back. I try to find an eighth girl but no luck and I go home.
Summary: calmer, less scripted, sexier, slower
