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cccrunner said:
What do you guys think is better for college day or night game? I'm having a lot of trouble rationalizing day game because of the risks (coming off as creepy, getting a reputation etc.) and the lack of reward (most people are busy and aren't really looking for other people bc they do that on the weekend) and because night game is so easy (availability, alcohol, and most people want to find someone there). I'd love to get started on day game, I just don't see me meeting a girl, getting her number, going on a date with her and then hooking up unless its to a party or club.
Depends on how big your school is, and whether you're in a small college town or a bigger city with other women, too.
I went to a school with 40,000 students, and I can tell you that I'd rarely see the same girl twice out walking around during the day. My guess is any school with 15,000+ students you can probably get away with at least a modicum of day game and not have to worry about any weirdness. You'll figure out how to open smoothly later, and if you happen to run into a girl in a social situation later whom you opened by day and it didn't go all that great later, just ignore her and socialize a lot with your friends and act like you don't recognize her and are "better" than her when you meet her. The feeling you want her to have is that she had a chance to meet this guy who's actually AMAZING, and passed it up... so that she'll start pursuing you and being nice to you and kissing up to you later.
cccrunner said:
I'm also wondering how the whole hook-up buddies thing works. While I might meet a girl and hook up with her, I always feel weird texting her after (which is probably why I don't have anyone as my go to person right now)
Everything's weird until you do it. That weirdness is going to stay there until you start texting girls to come over, get the hang of it, and get familiar with it... at that point, it ceases to be weird.
cccrunner said:
Also on a kind of related topic since I have stopped drinking, I've felt a little guilty because I've been hooking up with girls who have been drinking. I feel like I'm taking advantage of them, which is something I don't want.
You can modulate this feeling by having a few drinks yourself. If it's still bothering you, then only go for girls who aren't as drunk, OR pull girls home drunk, get them in bed, escalate, but don't have sex until you've had them back an hour or two and given them water or fruit juice to drink and no alcohol so they've sobered up some.
Also, I forget where I saw it, but there was some recent research showing that people behave only how they
think that drunk people
should act when they're drunk. So, if you think drunk people are angry when drunk, you'll be an angry drunk. If you think drunk people are promiscuous when drunk, so too will you be. Personally, I've always thought you behave however you want to behave while drunk, and, as you might expect, even while very drunk, most people don't know that I'm drunk, aside from the fact that my humor is a bit sharper and inhibitions are a bit lower.
So, I'm VERY skeptical these days of whether people actually do things they "don't want to do" when drunk.
I think people do EXACTLY what they want to do when drunk. And then try to blame it on the alcohol later: "That wasn't
me, haha... it was just the
alcohol!" Fat chance.
Chase
