Girl 1: pretty Asian sitting down. I tell her I love her style. I sit down and she tells me that she's on the phone. So I just sit there. While she talks on the phone. Probably should have asked her to get off the phone. I sit there feeling powerless. I take my leave.
To improve on: stronger approach, SLEGIM, ask her to get off phone or just talk while she talks to the other person
I'm feeling really lame so I walk to the car but I try to snap myself out of it and realize that there are plenty of other girls there. I walk back.
Girl 2: a tiny little thing. I approach and she is thrown off, not expecting this. So I compliment her again to assuage her concerns. Not the right thing to do. I try to make conversation but she is never fully comfortable. I try to move her with the reason that I'm leaving so walk me to my car. Not the right thing to do either. I take my leave.
To improve on: the usual, don't mention my car it just scares them, just ask if they'll come for a walk
University
Girl 3: very soft opening, it sucks. But as I talk it seems that she is a very shy, socially inept girl. So it's alright. I actually do some good deep diving, she says she's in business but wants to do something artistic. but she is too shy to accept my advances and I am being too soft anyway.
To improve on: soft but with an edge, considerate but still cool
To improve on: stronger approach, SLEGIM, ask her to get off phone or just talk while she talks to the other person
I'm feeling really lame so I walk to the car but I try to snap myself out of it and realize that there are plenty of other girls there. I walk back.
Girl 2: a tiny little thing. I approach and she is thrown off, not expecting this. So I compliment her again to assuage her concerns. Not the right thing to do. I try to make conversation but she is never fully comfortable. I try to move her with the reason that I'm leaving so walk me to my car. Not the right thing to do either. I take my leave.
To improve on: the usual, don't mention my car it just scares them, just ask if they'll come for a walk
University
Girl 3: very soft opening, it sucks. But as I talk it seems that she is a very shy, socially inept girl. So it's alright. I actually do some good deep diving, she says she's in business but wants to do something artistic. but she is too shy to accept my advances and I am being too soft anyway.
To improve on: soft but with an edge, considerate but still cool
