Compatability vs feelz (tingles)

[archimedes]

Mind vs body or animal mind i guess, what are your thoughts on what matters most/leads to most rejections? Re this image

I've had a few women say after "good" dates we're not the right fit. And probably 100x that didn't even make it that far, for the same reason

Are we indeed not the right fit, because of what she's looking for? Or did I just not give them bodily feels? Or both.. maybe both are necessary for a relationship. I have never attributed my failures to "compatability" but my failings at winning trust, respect and sexual interest and such.

I've hardly thought of compatability actually, as a concept. I think I tend to know if we'd be compatible.In listening to men and women over the years, who've gotten married I've noticed men often know first and even right away. When you give women a choice and don't just completely hack her emotions, then is she going to study how compatible you two are and look for reasons to dump you?

Women play dumb a lot I think and it makes them hard to know what they think. They like blurring lines.. but the woman in this funny post came out with it. Notice the question mark though when she says yes. She's too afraid to just say yes. Women may be the "weaker" sex, but they are not the dumber. It takes high intelligence to play dumb.. I suppose.

Each woman decides what's compatible for her, by age, height, views everything.. and whatever quirks and programming of a childhood and culture gave her. Institutions and cultural movements have consequences. But I imagine if she's not being given strong feelings, her conscious compatability system will kick in high gear and bring up all her weirdness. I also see me violating this often because I'm a non conformists. I dress alright and get along with all types of people easily because I'm chill but I tend to not worship idols or kiss people's rings, or this or that. Losing sucks. Winning feels good. What's in their heads then?

 

[TwoNameGame]

Mind vs body or animal mind i guess, what are your thoughts on what matters most/leads to most rejections? Re this image

Ground rules:

1. r/NiceGirls is about CRAZY women. Ignore their version of reality (case in point, this woman was objectively wrong about the playlist).
2. This woman had baggage, which universally complicates things. Sometimes, these woman are not worth it.
3. Don't take dating advice from women. Like, ever. They don't particularize seduction the way a PUA does (women argue that cold approaches cannot work because women want deep dives which no PUA does, apparently, and that a good boyfriend is one who washes dishes but won't go to their home until the third date). The existence of guys like us and Chase is one gaint, pleasurable middle finger up the pussy to women's dating advice.
4. Do not take what women say at face value. Women communicate differently from men.

Your question is the a classic debate of similarity vs arousal. Both matter, but how much you need is a matter of goals.

Compatibility is just another word for similiarity, with some elements of trust. You are compatible if she wants the same relationship you do, you two share a frame for viewing the world, and you "get" her. That's how you get an LTR.

But for a lover, it's more about getting her in the raw, passionate mood for sex and using kino wisely. You don't need much compatibility for a ONS, and FWB fizzle out after a few months anyways.

 

[gameboy]

one gaint, pleasurable middle finger up the pussy