Hey guys,
Could you help me understand how differing levels of attainability and compliance feel to her from her pov (ie how she experiences it). Once I’m able to understand it from women’s perspective it makes a lot more sense to me.
High value makes sense to me - Feels like you’re out of her league, she doesn’t feel very secure, uncertain and like she might get rejected and therefore won’t take the risk with you. (I think this is easily correctable by being warm, investing more)
Too attainable and low value also make sense to me - you feel too boring to her, no challenge. It’s too easy relative to your value, she feels like she doesn’t have to work to get your attention, it’s easily accessible.
How does it feel to her when she is being too compliant or self investing more than you? What do women do in response to this?
How does it feel when you’re unattainable to her? (What traits make you unattainable).
Thanks guys
Could you help me understand how differing levels of attainability and compliance feel to her from her pov (ie how she experiences it). Once I’m able to understand it from women’s perspective it makes a lot more sense to me.
High value makes sense to me - Feels like you’re out of her league, she doesn’t feel very secure, uncertain and like she might get rejected and therefore won’t take the risk with you. (I think this is easily correctable by being warm, investing more)
Too attainable and low value also make sense to me - you feel too boring to her, no challenge. It’s too easy relative to your value, she feels like she doesn’t have to work to get your attention, it’s easily accessible.
How does it feel to her when she is being too compliant or self investing more than you? What do women do in response to this?
How does it feel when you’re unattainable to her? (What traits make you unattainable).
Thanks guys
