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Socializing  Compliance, Submission and Attraction

RedNeck

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Recently, I have been so mean to a girl and it seems I am getting away with so many shit with her . Each time I think she will get mad at me but she doesn’t .

She is just an acquaintance . She is a latina (25 yo)

Here’s an example of what I have said :

1- I implicitly told her she was slut. I thought she would get mad but she didn’t.She even told me she didn’t get mad .

2- One time , I told her “ Shut the fuck up so I can focus on something “ in serious tone . She didn’t protest and she stayed quiet . Once I was done I said to her “ now you can talk “ She started talking as nothing has happened.

3- Sometimes , I give her narcissistic Silence treatment . Like completely ignoring her as she doesn’t exist for months . She never gets mad if anything she tries harder to get me to talk to her .You would think she will go into auto rejection .

The list can go on and on .

I know she likes me . This is an info, not a guess . I think she is kinda obsessed too .

The questions for seasoned seducerS is :
Does higher attraction translate into higher compliance, submission, and forgiveness from the woman’s side ?

Also , I am asking to see if this one time thing or will all the girls respond similarly to this behavior?
 
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Chase

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What's the sexual marketplace like there?

My guess is you're either in a relatively small workplace (not a lot of people your age working there) or you're in a small town?

In bigger places, where women have more options, they will tend not to wait around for months with radio silence from you. Usually.

It's possible she has low self-esteem or an attachment disorder (anxious attachment, etc.) that makes her more accepting of poor treatment.

But my guess is most likely, for whatever reason, she doesn't have a lot of other options, so she is a lot more tolerant of rudeness/brusqueness, plus you not being around / not talking to her for long stretches.

Maybe she doesn't have friends she goes out with, or you're high quality than the guys she meets when she goes out. Maybe her Tinder has been a continual string of disappointment, and she has pinned all her hopes on you.
 
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