Comprehensive list of questions about approach invitations in daygame

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

Hello guys quick question about approaching invitations. Obviously, I'm training right now, and I'll probably figure all of this on my own, but I would appreciate if you could speed up my process, and we'll have a discussion thread that might help other guys start faster as well. I have several questions.

Do I understand correctly that approaching invitations do not mean that she is 100% open to actually going on a date with you? Because I get approach invitations from married women.

I approach them, they're very warm, but they tell me they're married, and nothing comes of it. I can probably try harder next time, but that's another story.

Second question is - they say if a girl is looking at you for more than a second and a half is an approach invitation, so is quickly turning away when they notice you looking. So question is aren't those mutually exclusive?

Third question. I'm a very technical guy, a lot of people on this forum say I am overthinking things, but that's just the way I am. So let me overthink this as well, if you approach 100 girls (properly, not spam, over the course of a week), who did not give you approach invitations, because they did not see you, let's say you get 20 numbers from it

So what would be the numbers of girls who give you approach invitations?

and what would be the numbers of girls who give you fuck off signals? Would it be something like 40 numbers, and five numbers respectively?

Next question comes from the previous one. How solid are fuck off signals? If a girl looks away immediately after seeing me, but does not give me any disgust or any super blatant thing like that is it still okay to approach?
Or is that just stupid?

Next question is how often will approach happen in different places? For example if you approach in the park where everybody's just looking around and walking around slowly, or if you're approaching the mall are they going to be more frequent, than in the Metro for example? Because in the Metro people are just used to tuning out a large crowds of people and they're rarely looking at people's faces?

Next question is comes from the previous one. How solid are fuck off signals? If a girl looks away immediately after seeing me but does not give me any disgust or any super blatant thing like that is it still okay to approach her? Or is that just stupid?

Next question is how often will approach invitations happen in different places?

For example if you approach in the park where everybody's just looking around and walking around slowly, or if you're approaching the mall, are they going to be more frequent, than in the Metro for example? Because in the Metro people are just used to tuning out a large crowds of people and they're rarely looking at people's faces?

 

[KJ Francis]

Do I understand correctly that approaching invitations do not mean that she is 100% open to actually going on a date with you? Because I get approach invitations from married women.

Correct. I see them more as her subconscious inviting you in most cases. Like playing with her hair or staring is her attraction betraying her. If she physically hovers near you or makes more audible sounds like humming trying to get your attention, that is more her logical brain actually inviting you to approach her.

Second question is - they say if a girl is looking at you for more than a second and a half is an approach invitation, so is quickly turning away when they notice you looking. So question is aren't those mutually exclusive?

Nope I think this is her cautious, timid nature, like she knows she's busted. If a girl locks eyes and keeps them there, that is a massive green light from a very open woman. If she looks away it is still on, and up to you now as the male to persist.

If a girl looks away immediately after seeing me but does not give me any disgust or any super blatant thing like that is it still okay to approach her?

Even if she does give a look of disgust, approach her. Maybe even especially so.

Bitchy = horny

This can be counterintuitive to see. Especially in relationships.

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As she gets closer, I bring my eyes to meet hers. She was already looking at me. Quickly, she averts her eyes and has this bitchy look of disgust.

With less than 5 metres between us, she swerves to the right (my left) and ups her speed, seemingly trying to avoid me.

Despite what I consider textbook fuck off signals, I open.

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[James D]

@thats_a_penis_disgustang

The best thing you can do is make a prediction, approach and examine the feedback.

As long as she's approachable (i.e. not with her husband), you approach.

Compare how it went with your prediction.

That's how you sharpen your ability to spot approach invitations and fuck off signals.

Approach invitations are very much an instinct thing.

It's learnt in field.

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

Because you please answer this

how often will approach invitations happen in different places?

For example if you approach in the park where everybody's just looking around and walking around slowly, or if you're approaching the mall, are they going to be more frequent, than in the Metro for example? Because in the Metro people are just used to tuning out a large crowds of people and they're rarely looking at people's faces?

 

[Will_V]

Because you please answer this

how often will approach invitations happen in different places?

For example if you approach in the park where everybody's just looking around and walking around slowly, or if you're approaching the mall, are they going to be more frequent, than in the Metro for example? Because in the Metro people are just used to tuning out a large crowds of people and they're rarely looking at people's faces?

Until you have a good process for the approach that's getting you solid results, forget about approach invitations. It's not the most important thing in the world, more important is what you do when you walk up to her.

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

Why would I want to deprive myself such a great instrument? Last week to combat my spam approaching deviances I have limited myself to just 10 approaches a day, where before I was making up to 150. And it got me thinking, if I only have 10 a day first of all every one of those should be perfect, I should have enough energy to have unique conversations, unique openers, unique compliments, secondly it should be a really great example for what I should do in my spare time and how my Tempo should look like, in the environment where there's a gorgeous girl every 10 m