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Confronting a friend

HalfGuard

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hey guys even though I haven't posted here in a long time I've been doing pick ups for some time now a year and a half approximately anyways recently I decided to get in an exclusive relationship with a girl , we have been on the relationship for two months now and everything has been going fine in the relationship by the standards laid here , I slept with her before getting on the relationship and I keep her sexually satisfied , we have sex between 14 and 20 times a week etc
She is a gorgeous girl so she is constantly getting hit by other guys and I'm actually used to it because I know that it is normal when you have a quality girlfriend.
Basically I met her because she is my Brazilian Jiu Jitsu student she also does Muay Thai and MMA , lately I have been taking her with me to the place I train which is diferent to where I teach and she normally trains and she is been taking there the Muay Thai class which is given by a "friend" of mine.
So today I woke up and saw that he added her on Facebook went through her photos and likes some sexy photos of her from 2 years ago and although I'm used to guys hitting on her it really pisses me that someone who supposedly is my friend kind of hitting on my girlfriend I mean I don't stalk and like pictures of my friends girlfriend in a bikini or Top
So I want to confront him about it , I mean I'm not planing on getting in a fight with him but just ask him what the fuck is up with that but I don't know if it is the right thing to do , as the time of writing this I feel kind of dumb getting like this over a Facebook like but it bother me.
Also if I confront him should I tell my girlfriend , or if she brings it up how should I react Dometime she bring stuff like that up , I don't know if she is trying to make me jealous science in all this time I haven't shown any jealousy at all

I would like to here some of the most experienced guy's here opinion like Franco or chase thanks
 

Franco

Tribal Elder
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HG,

Your best move here is to do nothing at all. Your friend is doing typical "orbiter" actions by Liking her pictures on Facebook. It doesn't make her any more interested in him and only slots him lower on the "alpha male" chart. Remember, to her, you are the manly guy that is fucking her. He is the guy who is Liking her photos on Facebook.

There's probably nothing to be concerned about unless you start to notice your girl behaving differently as if she was possibly starting to see another guy on the side. But if your girl seems completely happy with you and wants to see you all the time, then worrying or doing something here will only hurt you.

- Franco
 
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daviddreamer

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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This situation shouldn't bother you if you trust your girlfriend and you're in a exclusive relationship. Do you trust your girlfriend? If yes then you have no reason to confront anything. Doing that will lower your value quite a bit. If not then you need to find the source of why not. Is it your insecurities or is it something about her that makes you not want to trust her?
 
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