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Consequences for repeatedly failing in front of regulars?

Gojy

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I’m a newb planning to start out with night game. I’m guessing that most venues have lots of regulars right?

When I fail, embarrass myself, or offend some people (which is going to be super common considering I’m just starting out), won’t I lose the venue since everyone who regularly goes there would know me as THAT guy?

I’m into the more edgy RSD stuff. I live in a small city.

Am I just overthinking this? Would love to hear your thoughts/experiences.
 

Conquistador

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since everyone who regularly goes there would know me as THAT guy?
If you are, you’re probably doing something wrong.
You can also flit from venue to venue; even small cities have a bunch.
Understand the spotlight effect; few people have steel-trap memories for random low-level incidents, especially late at night with alcohol…
I’m into the more edgy RSD stuff.
Hmm well whatever works for you…brace yourself…
Am I just overthinking this?
You sound like you’re overthinking but I’ll wait for the experienced guys to weigh in on how much it even matters.
 
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Bill

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Todd V has two good videos on the issue of edgy game

 
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