Consequences for repeatedly failing in front of regulars?

[Gojy]

I’m a newb planning to start out with night game. I’m guessing that most venues have lots of regulars right?

When I fail, embarrass myself, or offend some people (which is going to be super common considering I’m just starting out), won’t I lose the venue since everyone who regularly goes there would know me as THAT guy?

I’m into the more edgy RSD stuff. I live in a small city.

Am I just overthinking this? Would love to hear your thoughts/experiences.

 

[Conquistador]

since everyone who regularly goes there would know me as THAT guy?

If you are, you’re probably doing something wrong.
You can also flit from venue to venue; even small cities have a bunch.
Understand the spotlight effect; few people have steel-trap memories for random low-level incidents, especially late at night with alcohol…

I’m into the more edgy RSD stuff.

Hmm well whatever works for you…brace yourself…

Am I just overthinking this?

You sound like you’re overthinking but I’ll wait for the experienced guys to weigh in on how much it even matters.

 

[Bill]

Todd V has two good videos on the issue of edgy game