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Hi, this is my journal for daygame and nightgame. I try to daygame with mostly direct openers to save time. I will be making ONLY weekly reports to share my progress because daily reports wouldn't motivate me as much. Currently I have been consistently approaching for a week. However, since I have exams soon, I will only be doing 1-2 approaches per day as I go out during my day-to-day life. After exams, I will again go out for the sake of approaching. Here are the reports:-
18/02/25 (college)
Approach 1:- Number close (replied to my first text)
Approach 2:- Failed shit test. My opener was "I saw you and I wanted to meet you. Hi, I am..."
She asked me why I wanted to meet her after I said my opener. I lost my frame and said "I want to get to know you" after which she said "not interested", I should have instead said that "I found you cute but I also wanted to know if you are interesting".
Approach 3:- Rejected. Asked for the number too soon. I should have ploughed more or gone for an instant date to build rapport. She seemed receptive.
19/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Didn't stop. Dunno if she was wearing earphones or not. Should have talked to her from the front
Approach 2:- Got rejected. Should have done kino when she was hooked in a conversation with me (said she is here only for a day)
Approach 3:- Self-ejection. She couldn't speak English much. I should have ploughed more and then tried to number close (didn't try to close)
Side note:- Approach 1 from 18/02/25 rejected me on text for a date. I shouldn't have asked her out so early on text. Should try to send 2-3 messages first to build rapport via texting.
20/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Rejected. Not confident enough at opening
Approach 2 to 4:- All girls ignored me, didn't even stop. I wasn't confident enough in my approach. It was evening and quieter where I approached and I spoke too softly.
21/02/25 (nightclub)
Did handful of approaches. Got an instagram close but doubt it is going anywhere. Some girls were receptive to me but I self-ejected including one hot girl and one 5/10 MILF who was flirting with me. I was too much in my head overthinking negative things.
22/02/25 (various places)
(street)
Approach 1-4 Rejection
Approach 5:- Self-ejection. Girl seemed little nervous so I lost my frame. Should have put some pressure off the girl and ploughed (didn't try to close)
(mall)
Approach 6:- Self-ejection. Indirect approach. Girl seemed little nervous so I lost my frame. Should have put some pressure off the girl and ploughed (didn't try to close).
23/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl was very receptive. Could have asked for instant date. Approach got ruined because of my friend calling me multiple times.
Approach 2:- Didn't stop. Dunno if she saw me or not, she was wearing earphones. Should have talked to her from the front.
Approach 3:- Girl was receptive. I asked for number too soon because I ran out of things to say.
Approach 4:- Girl was very receptive. I should have ploughed more. I asked for number too soon.
Approach 5:- Had a bf. Could have ploughed more.
Approach 6:- Rejected
Approach 7:- Girl was very receptive. I should have gone for an instant date. I asked for number too soon.
Approach 8:- Girl seemed receptive. Should have done cold reading instead of asking her a question.
Approach 9:- Girl was somewhat receptive. I should have ploughed more. I asked for number too soon.
24/02/25 (college canteen)
Approach 1:- Opened with a direct opener. I wasn't confident. She replied very neutrally that she has an appointment and I ejected.
Anyway, as you have seen, I haven't been getting many numbers lately (1 number after 20+ approaches or so). Is this normal? In reddit and youtube, I see guys claiming they get few numbers after every 10 approaches or so. However, it is also true that once the girl gets hooked into the conversation, I don't try to lengthen the conversation because I kinda get lazy or can't hold the conversation longer. I don't think I am ugly. Just want to know if this is normal from someone who daygames a lot. Btw many of these girls also said they have a bf/fiancé.
18/02/25 (college)
Approach 1:- Number close (replied to my first text)
Approach 2:- Failed shit test. My opener was "I saw you and I wanted to meet you. Hi, I am..."
She asked me why I wanted to meet her after I said my opener. I lost my frame and said "I want to get to know you" after which she said "not interested", I should have instead said that "I found you cute but I also wanted to know if you are interesting".
Approach 3:- Rejected. Asked for the number too soon. I should have ploughed more or gone for an instant date to build rapport. She seemed receptive.
19/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Didn't stop. Dunno if she was wearing earphones or not. Should have talked to her from the front
Approach 2:- Got rejected. Should have done kino when she was hooked in a conversation with me (said she is here only for a day)
Approach 3:- Self-ejection. She couldn't speak English much. I should have ploughed more and then tried to number close (didn't try to close)
Side note:- Approach 1 from 18/02/25 rejected me on text for a date. I shouldn't have asked her out so early on text. Should try to send 2-3 messages first to build rapport via texting.
20/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Rejected. Not confident enough at opening
Approach 2 to 4:- All girls ignored me, didn't even stop. I wasn't confident enough in my approach. It was evening and quieter where I approached and I spoke too softly.
21/02/25 (nightclub)
Did handful of approaches. Got an instagram close but doubt it is going anywhere. Some girls were receptive to me but I self-ejected including one hot girl and one 5/10 MILF who was flirting with me. I was too much in my head overthinking negative things.
22/02/25 (various places)
(street)
Approach 1-4 Rejection
Approach 5:- Self-ejection. Girl seemed little nervous so I lost my frame. Should have put some pressure off the girl and ploughed (didn't try to close)
(mall)
Approach 6:- Self-ejection. Indirect approach. Girl seemed little nervous so I lost my frame. Should have put some pressure off the girl and ploughed (didn't try to close).
23/02/25 (street)
Approach 1:- Girl was very receptive. Could have asked for instant date. Approach got ruined because of my friend calling me multiple times.
Approach 2:- Didn't stop. Dunno if she saw me or not, she was wearing earphones. Should have talked to her from the front.
Approach 3:- Girl was receptive. I asked for number too soon because I ran out of things to say.
Approach 4:- Girl was very receptive. I should have ploughed more. I asked for number too soon.
Approach 5:- Had a bf. Could have ploughed more.
Approach 6:- Rejected
Approach 7:- Girl was very receptive. I should have gone for an instant date. I asked for number too soon.
Approach 8:- Girl seemed receptive. Should have done cold reading instead of asking her a question.
Approach 9:- Girl was somewhat receptive. I should have ploughed more. I asked for number too soon.
24/02/25 (college canteen)
Approach 1:- Opened with a direct opener. I wasn't confident. She replied very neutrally that she has an appointment and I ejected.
Anyway, as you have seen, I haven't been getting many numbers lately (1 number after 20+ approaches or so). Is this normal? In reddit and youtube, I see guys claiming they get few numbers after every 10 approaches or so. However, it is also true that once the girl gets hooked into the conversation, I don't try to lengthen the conversation because I kinda get lazy or can't hold the conversation longer. I don't think I am ugly. Just want to know if this is normal from someone who daygames a lot. Btw many of these girls also said they have a bf/fiancé.
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