Contact with girls who you've had sex with in other cities

[Synthesis]

Hey guys, what's the primer on texting girls who you've had sex with while traveling but are not likely to see anytime in the near future? I'm currently in a situation where I have multiple girls in different cities I've been to over the last year who we've hooked up and kept in touch on Instagram. They like all my stories and posts but don't directly contact me and I typically don't message them either, so I'm wondering what the premise for contact is for these type of girls. I wouldn't mind keeping in touch and seeing them again if I happen to be in their city again but am not going out of my way just to go see them. Should I be texting them at all if I'm not in their city and if so, how much?

 

[slashrfnr]

I'd say stay engaged by liking/commenting on their IG stories/pictures, and maybe have some banter from there, just so you stay in their mind. And then if you are heading to their city, message them and say you will be there and it would be good to catch up.

@Skills texting guides are good here.

Simple/basic texting guide

There are 2 types of texting most guys use: 1.- long texting setting sexual frames.- This is hard to do, but is possible to do with experience. I had to rely in this style for 2 reasons: a.-) I relied a lot on physical game, no talking dance floor game and i had a heavy latin accent. b.-) By...

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Clarification on how i discover the text morning and the why it works as a ping

Ok guys so sometimes i see post on good interactions follow by no responses, or good interactions by an statement that causes radio silence from the women, or lose of momentum in a texting convo, or good interactions but for logistics not contact for days or weeks till meet.... So when i...

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Or Chase's texting guide

14 Simple Ways to Text a Girl and Make Her Want You

Don't know how to text a girl you like? Copy these texts and send them to her to get her excited and ready to go out with you. Contents 1. Icebreaker Text 2. Same Day Date Text 3. Next Day Date Text 4. Standard Scheduler Text 5. Proposal Text 6. No Worries Text 7. Scheduler II Text 8. Scheduler...

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I've previously used Chase's method as I liked how upfront it is - like you know exactly why the other person is getting in touch with you - and its what I previously would have recommended here. But I've experimented with Skills stuff (open - banter/flirt - soft close - hard close) and think that may work better in this situation, as it will feel less out of the blue.