Cultivating Interest in Women in general

[ShioriGC]

I recently hung out with this woman I met at an event and I got her to take me back to her place. We ended up talking and enjoying our time, looking at the views and talking about life. But I didn't make a move, I wasn't nervous, I didn't feel hesistant, and I did think she was attractive. I ended up leaving after spending time together for 3 hours at her place.

Embarassing I know, but at the time I was completely fine with it. Basically I fumbled a chance to sleep with a woman

So I got to thinking, I need to cultivate more interest in women, and I've been doing that the past couple weeks.

Has anyone else experienced situations like this and have any methods to cultivate more interest from the heart?

 

[SexualHero]

I wasn't nervous, I didn't feel hesistant, and I did think she was attractive.

So why didn't you escalate ? I think you are lying to yourself either about being not scared to escalate, or being hetero. Are you maybe asexual ? I know for sure that when I find a woman attractive, I don't need to "cultivate interest" for me to wish to see her naked

 

[ShioriGC]

So why didn't you escalate ? I think you are lying to yourself either about being not scared to escalate, or being hetero. Are you maybe asexual ? I know for sure that when I find a woman attractive, I don't need to "cultivate interest" for me to wish to see her naked

no im not gay - i didnt feel scared to escalate but maybe i was in some way

just noticed over the past years i have bursts of motivation, want to be more consistent