Curiosity About Valentines Day

[TheRuralJuror]

Hey Guys!


I'm writing because I'm just curious about how there's no field reports about Valentine's Day lays or texts someone got or meetups etc... you guys have been awesome with these reports and progress you're making on the other 364 days of the year, I was just wondering how on "The day of Love", you guys didn't write nothing about how a girl is all over you for Valentine's Day or you took a girl out to dinner, give presents, met a girl, sex etc...
BY NO MEANS AM I CRITICIZING, because my god, I'm not even on you guys level!!! But I was just curious....

 

[Inbocca]

Just another day, man. Anyone telling you otherwise is trying to sell you something.

 

[TheRuralJuror]

Just another day, man. Anyone telling you otherwise is trying to sell you something.

I feel ya man! I was just wondering... figured the girls would've been "more willing", considering you guys skills and maybe I thought they'd be lonely because they had no dates or valentines to be with!

 

[Seppuku]

Hey TheRuralJuror,

Think about it. Valentines dates is girls game. It is her, framing you into a boyfriend / provider role. It is the society, framing you into acceptable dating norms. It is also her, showing to the world that she is attractive: the first thing she will do is to post a picture of her date in Facebook / Instagram etc... That's why so many girls are desperate to find a date for that particular day.

It's very important to her. But what's in it for the guy? Compared to the other 364 days of the year?

I don't do Valentines dates. I usually try to avoid playing into the girls game, and try instead to have them play into my game. It's about who is holding the frame.

I hope it makes sense.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Ree]

Man...hate to argue with sepuku......but man.....
Valentines has a lot of desperate women desperately wanting a date....desperately wanting to pose with a guy treating them...I used this to my advantage ....made a pull that would have otherwise not had worked if it was an ordinary day

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Ree,

we don't have an argument. It's all fine to go on Valentines dates, as long as you know what you are doing and you eventually hold the stronger frame. Which obviously you are. Good job!

What I like to do is to take the chance to make them chase me. It's a lot of fun. Here are a few examples from last Tuesday. All three are burning to know what I'm doing on the Valentines evening.

Girl 1
She's a lower end FB of mine, but she comes to me with a strong sense of entitlement. I kill it off the bat straight away:

Her: Happy valentines (three smile emojis)
Me: Happy valentines.
Her: Where are my flowers?
What a strong sense of entitlement. What I'm thinking is: Just because it's Valentines day doesn't mean I owe anything to anybody. But what I write instead is:
Me: There are no flowers.
Her: Why?
Me: Because that's the way it is.
She went silent for 24h after that, but returned the next day with a "Hi!" and been chasing since then.

Girl 2
She's a new girl in my address book from my online system. Never met her so far, but I'm cooking her.

Her: Happy Valentines Day (Smile emoji)
Me: Happy Valentines
Her: (three red roses icon). For you.
Me: (two hours later) Thanks.
Her: (Four hours later - around 11pm) Did you go out tonight?
Me: (wink emoji) the burning question (laughing emoji)
Her: Just got home. I'll go out with my friends
Me: OK enjoy your Valentines night (wink emoji) like I don't care if she's having a date with someone else
Her: I will, thanks. You want to join? (nice try hahaha)
Me: No
Her: Ok
Me: I need to be at 7:30am in office tomorrow. (I don't want her to autoreject)

Girl 3
I went on a date once with her. The attempt at setting a second date failed as she wanted to bring along a friend and I said no. Since then I had set her to chase me. She pops up on Valentines evening, trying to poll what I'm doing. I keep the silence and keep her guessing.

Her (9pm): How are you?
I leave her in silence.
Her (11pm): Good night my dear. Enjoy the Valentine. (Kiss emoji).
I still leave her in silence. She'll have to keep guessing.

All three still chasing to this day. I'm currently away on a week of vacation. When I come back I will see what I can harvest. LOL.

Cheers guys,
Seppuku

 

[Ree]

hey...nice points sepuku.....i sometimes take it for granted thati will win the frame wars ...i think ur right on this one....unless someone has an unbendable frame ,valentines might turn out to be a guy spending money on an entitled female

 

[JJP710]

I went out valentines day weekend, what i noticed is that the girls that go out clubbing on vday tend to hate the holiday. Nobody was more or less likely to go home with me just because it was valentines day. The only thing that helped was that girls drank more because its a holiday. Other than that its just a busier version of a regular weekend night.