Cute to sexy

[Tigs]

I get girls telling me all the time that they think I'm cute. How do I change this to get them to think I'm sexy? I read a lot about "how to be a sexy man" in Chases's forum but I apparently haven't figured it out yet. I'm still new to the game and I've been browsing and reading a lot.

Thanks,
LT

 

[Nova]

i honestly believe it helps to be a bit of a mixture, perhaps leaning slightly more towards sexy, but having elements of cuteness is not a bad trait. it allows girls to open up to you easier.

being sexy is all about your fundamentals and your vibe.

look sexy, talk sexy, smell sexy, feel sexy - combined with sexy body language. when it comes to the body language consider;

eye contact, stillness, move in closer, touch.

you must also exercise the traits of a sexy dominant man. move fast, control frames, persistence.

this is a very big subject and i could talk all day. but there are some of the fundamentals to get you started. but honestly chase covers the 'sexiness' element very well on the girlschase website, better than i or anyone on this forum could, so keep reading.

 

[Garrett]

i honestly believe it helps to be a bit of a mixture, perhaps leaning slightly more towards sexy, but having elements of cuteness is not a bad trait. it allows girls to open up to you easier.

being sexy is all about your fundamentals and your vibe.

look sexy, talk sexy, smell sexy, feel sexy - combined with sexy body language. when it comes to the body language consider;

eye contact, stillness, move in closer, touch.

you must also exercise the traits of a sexy dominant man. move fast, control frames, persistence.

this is a very big subject and i could talk all day. but there are some of the fundamentals to get you started. but honestly chase covers the 'sexiness' element very well on the girlschase website, better than i or anyone on this forum could, so keep reading.

Agreed ^, and consider growing some facial hair/muscles, that should help too

Cheers,
Garrett

 

[Tigs]

Cool thanks guys! I'll work on it.

You guys got any funny/ sexy things to say to a girl when she pinches your cheeks? This kinda goes along with the "cute" thing. Most girls don't believe I am 22 because I look like I'm 15. I can get them laughing pretty well but not moving in the direction I want.

 

[Garrett]

Cool thanks guys! I'll work on it.

You guys got any funny/ sexy things to say to a girl when she pinches your cheeks? This kinda goes along with the "cute" thing. Most girls don't believe I am 22 because I look like I'm 15. I can get them laughing pretty well but not moving in the direction I want.

Hey LtCmdrTigs, a lot of your communication is non verbals. You could simply flash her a sexy smile, diffuse her "authoritativeness" and make her feel like a little girl. If you can't think of anything to say, just flash a sexy smile. Laughing is more of a reaction than a result you want. It's good to make her laugh a bit though, I feel like you're giving off an entertainer/jester vibe so she doesn't take you seriously. Make sure you are investing a little less in your interaction than she is. Something you got to get down is balance, something I've struggled with immensely. If you go on one extreme and are trying too hard to be something you aren't, you'll come off as tryhard, and you'll lack the natural connection necessary for her to move forward/allow you to escalate the initial interaction and latter events. If you are cracking too many jokes, she'll think you're a clown, and as Chase states, girls don't find clowns sexy. To help with this, when you are deep diving and trying to get to know her more personally, try to lighten up the conversation when it gets deep and tease her a little bit. I haven't really gotten the teasing down, but I know Chase has a post up on this, and it's important to get this one down!

Goodluck man,
Garrett

 

[Flames]

Cool thanks guys! I'll work on it.

You guys got any funny/ sexy things to say to a girl when she pinches your cheeks? This kinda goes along with the "cute" thing. Most girls don't believe I am 22 because I look like I'm 15. I can get them laughing pretty well but not moving in the direction I want.

When they do that say how would you like it if I pinched YOUR cheeks and look at her strongly in the eye then move your eyes to her ass.

Unfortunately though that's unlikely to translate to different countries very well.

 

[Penguin]

Hey LtCmdrTigs ,
I'm the same, 22 with a cute baby-face. As well as having facial hair, muscles and a sexy demeanor, I also wear sexy adult clothing rather than t-shirts and jeans which is what children wear. For me it's extra slim fit shirts / suits. A good tip is to undo the top two buttons of the shirt and wear a nice necklace- This helps to draw women's eyes down to your chest muscles when they check you out (and they do often if you dress like that). I think you'll find that being cute AND sexy is pretty awesome .

When she pinches your cheeks, maybe say something about her wanting an excuse to touch you? Or "Do you normally hit on guys by pinching their cheeks?".

 

[Light]

I get girls telling me all the time that they think I'm cute. How do I change this to get them to think I'm sexy? I read a lot about "how to be a sexy man" in Chases's forum but I apparently haven't figured it out yet. I'm still new to the game and I've been browsing and reading a lot.

Thanks,
LT

Ok, first of all, being called "Cute" is not a bad thing at all. Its better than not being noticed.
Girls say you're cute because it comes accross more comfortable to say it without giving too much away.
Take it as a sign that they are interested in you and they want you to open them up!

I'm short and have baby face (yes I still get asked for ID at bars and clubs), and girls say that I'm cute all the time. Here is what I do:
- I look at them, and with a slow warm sexy smile, I say in a low sexy manly voice: "Really..? How would you like to take me home for the night? I can be warm and cudly in bed too.." (and wink)

They love it... you instantly become Sexy to them, and start deep diving.