Damage Control. I know, I know..

[Superlife]

So here's the good news - while I have been the true model of "hard case newbie" I feel I'm on the cusp of moving past it.
After some successful self internal jazz I noticed today a definitive difference in my interactions with the beautiful ladies .
But.
I failed to move the progression forward. Entertaining, a little bit witty, hey baybee me so sexy, all that. But then I was ok I'll be back later to buy that glowing garment that's obviously good for someone more like Kaitlyn Jenner (once again showing my sparkling wit).
Yea.
I get now what I should have said instead to actually like you know move to phase two of "Operation Bump Nasties". And it's good for next time for another girl. But I wouldn't mind trying another run. Made solid impact. I know she's going to test me hard next time. Just ignore and push through?
Bueller?

 

[Superlife]

Guessing I either answered my own question or I shouldn't post when on the happy end of bipolar. Or both. Anyway..plowing through a second attempt I shall. Perhaps my question should be what kind of test I should expect. But whatev, if she's still into me than cool ..if not ..

 

[Zoro]

Always be closing.

Next time you see this girl ask her out.

Next time you have a flirty chat with a girl, ask her out.

Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.

Or if you can, have an instadate

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.

 

[normajean106]

Always be closing.

Next time you see this girl ask her out.

Next time you have a flirty chat with a girl, ask her out.

Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.

Or if you can, have an instadate

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.

This is perfect.

Superlife, follow this advice.

 

[Superlife]

[
Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.
/quote]

Now that blows my mind. Move forward without validation - say what now. But I get it. I'm too fucking hooked into signs of approval. Bad habit. And that takes the weight off doesn't it when you're not feeling like Mr Big. Who cares if you don't spark a fire right away.

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.

Yes this is true. I've found it difficult to start interactions with women I'm really attracted to - like this one. So I'm on the tipping point of scarcity -to- making shit happen. Most of the babes I see are on the move and I hate the whole "I'm going to run after them" routine. May just have to suck that up.

Always be closing.

Next time you see this girl ask her out.

Next time you have a flirty chat with a girl, ask her out.

Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.

Or if you can, have an instadate

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.

 

[Superlife]

Deleting post saved twice.

 

[Superlife]

Will do!

Always be closing.

Next time you see this girl ask her out.

Next time you have a flirty chat with a girl, ask her out.

Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.

Or if you can, have an instadate

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.

This is perfect.

Superlife, follow this advice.

 

[Superlife]

And thanks for the tips man. Do appreciate it.

Always be closing.

Next time you see this girl ask her out.

Next time you have a flirty chat with a girl, ask her out.

Next time you have a shitty chat with a girl you're attracted to, ask her out.

Or if you can, have an instadate

I'm assuming the "I know, I know" part of your title for this thread means you know you should be focusing on meeting other women rather than patching up botched interactions, so that's good.