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This is something I would like to understand regarding relationships the way a seducer views them and operates in them.
Specifically, how does a busy high value seducer that has a number of things he focuses on daily, runs a relationship day to day with a high value attractive woman in a way that the relationship stays strong.
I’m talking about literally day to day, and let’s assume it is the main LTR, the one you care about the most.
For example, do you meet and spend some time talking about your days to help her feel connected?
Do you keep specific evenings free for you two to go to dates, while it’s expected on other days you won’t see each other that much?
Do you plan activities together, like going for a common hobby, or do you have your separate lives and circles?
I am sure these will be different depending on the different people, I am just trying to understand, given that you are having regular good sex that satisfies both of you, what else a relationship between two such high value people needs to work.
I am probably more of the avoidant type myself, so I struggle a lot to figure out what bonding actions may be needed by the other person, as I personally don’t care much about them.
As long as I know the girl I am attracted to respects/admires me, we enjoy the time we spend together when we meet, and we enjoy each other sexually for me it feels enough.
Specifically, how does a busy high value seducer that has a number of things he focuses on daily, runs a relationship day to day with a high value attractive woman in a way that the relationship stays strong.
I’m talking about literally day to day, and let’s assume it is the main LTR, the one you care about the most.
For example, do you meet and spend some time talking about your days to help her feel connected?
Do you keep specific evenings free for you two to go to dates, while it’s expected on other days you won’t see each other that much?
Do you plan activities together, like going for a common hobby, or do you have your separate lives and circles?
I am sure these will be different depending on the different people, I am just trying to understand, given that you are having regular good sex that satisfies both of you, what else a relationship between two such high value people needs to work.
I am probably more of the avoidant type myself, so I struggle a lot to figure out what bonding actions may be needed by the other person, as I personally don’t care much about them.
As long as I know the girl I am attracted to respects/admires me, we enjoy the time we spend together when we meet, and we enjoy each other sexually for me it feels enough.
