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Dealing with Flakes from Girls Who I See on an Ongoing Basis

Bboy100

Cro-Magnon Man
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The other day, I got a number from this girl in my class. She seemed super into me, we had a relatively decent connection ( by the end of our interaction, I literally had her dancing on the street with me LOL). I send an ice breaker text. No reply. A few days later, I text her again asking to meet. No reply.

If this was cold approach (i.e. I know I'll never see her again), this would obviously be the end of it. But since I see her in class 3 times a week, maybe there's something I can do? Not exactly sure what though. Cause I don't sit next to her, and I don't have any reason to interact with her during class. So I can't just make it look like I'm casually inquiring about it. I'd have to deliberately catch her as she's leaving class in order to have a conversation with her.

Any advice?
 
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Bboy100 said:
The other day, I got a number from this girl in my class. She seemed super into me, we had a relatively decent connection ( by the end of our interaction, I literally had her dancing on the street with me LOL). I send an ice breaker text. No reply. A few days later, I text her again asking to meet. No reply.

Most likely has a boyfriend. It happens a lot when you really vibe with a girl and you know that she's into you, but you can never get her to meet you again. It's why I always ask if she's single before going for the number - it cuts through all the smoke and mirrors.

Bboy100 said:
If this was cold approach (i.e. I know I'll never see her again), this would obviously be the end of it. But since I see her in class 3 times a week, maybe there's something I can do? Not exactly sure what though. Cause I don't sit next to her, and I don't have any reason to interact with her during class. So I can't just make it look like I'm casually inquiring about it. I'd have to deliberately catch her as she's leaving class in order to have a conversation with her.

Any advice?

Naw, leave her be. If she was interested/available, she would've already responded.
 
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