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Hello,
I went through a few of Chase's posts on approaching girls who are sitting such as this one. I have tried the "sit and open" tactic in that post a couple of times, and it has worked for me only once out of 10 approaches (meaning led to an actual date), so now I want to try out the "sudden approach" tactic outlined in that post.
My main problem is that I come from a somewhat conservative family background, and have been pretty nerdy for most of life, so I find it hard to come up with good openers and compliments for this particular approach, which seems to require a very direct approach. However, I am willing to spend time on the field, make mistakes and learn from them.
Can someone in this forum please advise me on setting up a good framework for getting better at approaches on working on specific parts such as compliments, touch and communication, specifically focusing on the "sudden approach" tactic?
I went through a few of Chase's posts on approaching girls who are sitting such as this one. I have tried the "sit and open" tactic in that post a couple of times, and it has worked for me only once out of 10 approaches (meaning led to an actual date), so now I want to try out the "sudden approach" tactic outlined in that post.
My main problem is that I come from a somewhat conservative family background, and have been pretty nerdy for most of life, so I find it hard to come up with good openers and compliments for this particular approach, which seems to require a very direct approach. However, I am willing to spend time on the field, make mistakes and learn from them.
Can someone in this forum please advise me on setting up a good framework for getting better at approaches on working on specific parts such as compliments, touch and communication, specifically focusing on the "sudden approach" tactic?