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HumanoidSnow

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Does a girl denying liking you is part of Auto rejection ? I had a girl give me alot of signs and suddenly she went cold after i didnt act on Her escalation window (because i had a girlfriend)
 

ulrich

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No.

A girl denying she likes you is playing hard to get. She has to take care of her reputation and make you work.

If you missed a escalation window, that’s a different story.
If she went cold after you not acting, then it’s likely autorejection... and it’s likely coming from your lack of escalation. She thinks you are not interested.
 
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HumanoidSnow

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No.

A girl denying she likes you is playing hard to get. She has to take care of her reputation and make you work.

If you missed a escalation window, that’s a different story.
If she went cold after you not acting, then it’s likely autorejection... and it’s likely coming from your lack of escalation. She thinks you are not interested.
Yeah and just like chase said in his article when it's happen there like 1 chance out of 999 of Her coming out of it .. atleast i learned. Thank you for your answer
 

ulrich

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Yeah and just like chase said in his article when it's happen there like 1 chance out of 999 of Her coming out of it .. atleast i learned. Thank you for your answer

Yes, but not necessarily.
Getting out of autorejection is possible but time is not on your side... the more time passes, the more difficult it will become.

Try some qualification, let her know that you like her and care for her in a non-needy way.
Maybe you can still salvage it.
 

HumanoidSnow

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Yeah it's been 6 months.. it's been over for a while but i just wanted To Get a opinion if it was autorejection what do you think: the girl was very warm, asking me personal questions, telling me im cute handsome like 3-4 times in a month, i want To Her work station for her break and when she was on break she returned because she wanted To spend Her break with me , she touched my arm and hands a few times and once while she was telling me i was getting all the girls i was just way too aloof and she grabbed my arm and said that i was REALLY handsome and really cute, after that she told me that she wanted To show me where she lives which was obviously the escalation window and since i didnt act on it she went cold and distant i mean im 99.9% it je auto rejection right ? I ignored all Her flirting because i had a gf.
 

HumanoidSnow

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Yup. Seems as good as gone. Sorry, pal.
It's ok bro, i learned so much from this so im thankful for this experience and i know they'll be plenty more To come but this time i'll be ready :) but be honest it was like 99% sure it was auto rejection right ?
 

ulrich

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It's ok bro, i learned so much from this so im thankful for this experience and i know they'll be plenty more To come but this time i'll be ready :) but be honest it was like 99% sure it was auto rejection right ?

Right. That’s autojection right there.
 
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