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Did I miss/misinterpret a pull signal?

barneystin

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Memory is a bit foggy so I'm not sure about the sequence of events.

Last night, I went out to the bars with some friends and early in the night, I met this girl in the smoking area. She really caught my eye and I had made a goal to pull so I opened and we started talking. We actually had one of the better conversations I've had in night game in a while. After talking for about 10-20 minutes, I lead her and her friends to the dance floor so I could get that compliance and escalate the interaction.
While dancing, I maintain strong eye contact while increasing touch and teasing her on her music tastes. I think a part of the song came on that went "shake that fat ass" (something along those lines) and she said "they're definitely not talking about me". I grabbed her ass and said "I don't know about that" to which she laughed a lot so the vibes were really good.

At some point, she starts talking about how I definitely "have a lot of hoes". I honestly don't remember how we got there but I told her to not worry about that and just focus on the both of us. At some point, we make out and at some other point (not sure if it was before or after we made out), she told me "I'm sorry but I can't take you home tonight" without me asking. She was still definitely into me so I asked why and she said it was because she's taking a break from men. In the moment, I told her I understood and just got her number. However, looking back, I'm beginning to think that might have been my cue to persist and pull.

I probably could have said something like "We won't do anything you don't want to do". I usually would persist a bit more but I got too drunk and was just intent on having fun in the moment. What do you guys think?
 
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