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Went to a bar with my cousin.I wanted to use more direct opener's, So I used them and went 0 for 3 haha although my cousin was amazed that I attempted the approaches haha blew him away actually,he was like "Oscar,I am proud of you". I was trying to get him to approach, but he was such a pussy lol.
1st approach 1 girl
Me: Hey, I thought you were cute, I wanted to come meet you,
Me: what is your name?
Her: Anell
Me: Im Oscar
Me: So me and my cousin are gonna take a shot, can we join you?
Her: Well,I am meeting some friends so I don't' know
Me: Ah come on
Her: haha maybe later or something lol
Me: Ok, well you have a nice night
(My buddy always tell me,never ever get mad at a girl for rejecting you. It makes you look bad.)
2nd Approach 2 girls
Me: Hey, ladies.I thought ya were cute and I wanted to meet ya'll. I'm Oscar. How ya''ll doin?
Them: (AH dont remember their names lol) How you doin?
Me:good
Me: So, are ya'll here alone or what?
Her: well, yes
Me:me and my cousin are about to take a shot, do ya'll want to join us? (I was attempting to move them)
Her: well, I dont know, where at?
Me: (logistics problem) well on the other side of the bar. (we didn't have a table)
Her: where?
Me: well, right there. You see that handsome guy over there, that is my cousin haha (that sounded gay, but I was totally playing lol)
Them: LMAO
Her: well I am too tired to move my feet hurt.
Me: Ah come on.
Her: sorry
Me: ok, ya'll have a nice night
Them: you too
3rd Approach 3 girl group
Me: Hey ladies, I thought ya'll were all cute and I wanted to meet ya'll. I'm Oscar. (better eye contact this time)
Them: Hi.
Me: So what are your names?
Them: Yolanda, blah, blah blah (don't remember their names at all lol fuck it)
Me: me and my cousin are about to take a shot, do you want to join us?
Her: ummmm, no sorry
Me: ah come on
Her: No sorry
Me: ok, ya'll have a nice night
Them: you too
Overall, I am still on the newbie assignment, but I skipped ahead cause I feel at my 26 years old, I have more experience than I believe haha.
Anyway guys, I felt I should of grabbed 1 out 3 at least. What did I do wrong? is direct opener good in bars? I felt it was too strong and I should use situational next time or something. I saw some of those girls talking to other guys afterwords ( they knew each other already, I think) and I was like fuck.
I was sitting at the bar, and not a table. I felt I did something wrong.
My cousin just couldn't believe that I approached them girls. He was pissed off at himself for not approaching for himself, but like I say he was a pussy lol.
1st approach 1 girl
Me: Hey, I thought you were cute, I wanted to come meet you,
Me: what is your name?
Her: Anell
Me: Im Oscar
Me: So me and my cousin are gonna take a shot, can we join you?
Her: Well,I am meeting some friends so I don't' know
Me: Ah come on
Her: haha maybe later or something lol
Me: Ok, well you have a nice night
(My buddy always tell me,never ever get mad at a girl for rejecting you. It makes you look bad.)
2nd Approach 2 girls
Me: Hey, ladies.I thought ya were cute and I wanted to meet ya'll. I'm Oscar. How ya''ll doin?
Them: (AH dont remember their names lol) How you doin?
Me:good
Me: So, are ya'll here alone or what?
Her: well, yes
Me:me and my cousin are about to take a shot, do ya'll want to join us? (I was attempting to move them)
Her: well, I dont know, where at?
Me: (logistics problem) well on the other side of the bar. (we didn't have a table)
Her: where?
Me: well, right there. You see that handsome guy over there, that is my cousin haha (that sounded gay, but I was totally playing lol)
Them: LMAO
Her: well I am too tired to move my feet hurt.
Me: Ah come on.
Her: sorry
Me: ok, ya'll have a nice night
Them: you too
3rd Approach 3 girl group
Me: Hey ladies, I thought ya'll were all cute and I wanted to meet ya'll. I'm Oscar. (better eye contact this time)
Them: Hi.
Me: So what are your names?
Them: Yolanda, blah, blah blah (don't remember their names at all lol fuck it)
Me: me and my cousin are about to take a shot, do you want to join us?
Her: ummmm, no sorry
Me: ah come on
Her: No sorry
Me: ok, ya'll have a nice night
Them: you too
Overall, I am still on the newbie assignment, but I skipped ahead cause I feel at my 26 years old, I have more experience than I believe haha.
Anyway guys, I felt I should of grabbed 1 out 3 at least. What did I do wrong? is direct opener good in bars? I felt it was too strong and I should use situational next time or something. I saw some of those girls talking to other guys afterwords ( they knew each other already, I think) and I was like fuck.
I was sitting at the bar, and not a table. I felt I did something wrong.
My cousin just couldn't believe that I approached them girls. He was pissed off at himself for not approaching for himself, but like I say he was a pussy lol.