I’m work as manager in software company and looks like one of my married direct reports is showing signs of attraction. She recently complimented my broad shoulders in a group setting and talked about her periods as a reason to take PTO time in our 1-1 meeting. Looks like she is ready to be taken to bed. Any thoughts?
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Do you prefer her work or her pussy?
I knew I'd get this response. Absolutely work man and I'm pretty strict about it. Just wanted to be sure what I'm thinking is correct so that I start getting strict with her and we only engage in work related topics
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I know it's the sort of thing that's easy to say, but it's 100% true. It's hard enough even to get a girlfriend to keep committing to some productive habit or routine when there's any kind of friction or drama in the relationship, I can only imagine the amount of trouble it would be trying to manage the productivity of a woman who's married to someone else, and whose relationship with you is predicated on the excitement of breaking rules.
There's also the problem of leverage, if she ever wanted to mess things up for you she probably could, even without asserting anything except the truth. And from what I have seen, the greatest lengths a woman will go to in raining destruction on a man is to protect her reputation, which is on the line here.
Personally, I think it's best to keep women and work as separated as possible, unless she's your gf/wife and she's 'helping out'.
Thanks for your candid response and appreciate it. Please know that I haven't given any hints that I'm interested and actually I'm not. She is neglected in her marriage and as manager, it's my responsibility to care for people and sometimes it also erodes into personal space depending upon rapport you share with your direct reports. Looks like my caring attitude has attracted her. She has messed up on work now and I've started to receive complaints. Will meet her shortly for a strict convo