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Longshanks

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TL;DR: Engaged girl from out of town takes a shine to me, I'm not sure what I want to do.

I met her a friend's b.d. party at a dance club, she was visiting from 2hrs away. She was drunk by the time I met her, and she complimented me heavily and even launched some kino herself. She's a little less attractive that I fancy, so I didn't bite right away. Eventually, I decided to go dance with her, and that was fun, even though we were both clumsy. I discovered while grinding with her that she was engaged, but she told me she jumped into it and was having second thoughts, basically. At the end of the night, I kissed her goodbye, and she really pulled me back in and we made out for half a minute while her friends waited for her to jump in the car. No number, figured I'd never see her again, just as well.

Next night, she showed up at the bar where I was hanging out with some of the same folks from the night before. I was surprised, thought she'd left town. We wound up dancing some more, and it was more awkward b/c we were both more sober and had less to talk about. Eventually we went to a friend's house after barclose and watched a movie, and I cuddled with her. We made out again at the door when I left for the night. This time I got her number.

Since then, I've been out of town several weekends, but finally I am in town, and she is visiting for another b.d. party that I'm also invited to. She tried to get me to meet with her last night, but I had another date planned. She also asked if I could hang out this afternoon, but I didn't see her text untill late, so she said she'd made other plans for lunch, but maybe we could pregame the b.d. party. She's basically hounding me, although I'm afraid I may be pushing her toward autorejection at this point! I think some "pregaming" this evening would suit me just fine, after last night's fiasco last night's fiasco. I'm a bit nervous that she's looking for an excuse/wedge to get away from her fiance, so I need to make sure she knows I'm not suitable for an ltr. We've also got plans to go for a hike tomorrow, so I can probably convince her to crash at my place after the party, for ease of logistics. I think I'm about to break my 3 month dry spell!
 

Longshanks

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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And it's an LR now!

We texted quite a bit throughout the day, mostly chitchat & logistics. Finally, she was late getting to the party, she texted
Her: "OMG this shopping is taking too long!"
Me: "Anxious to see me? :p"
Her: "Maybe a little bit..."

That was an improvement, I got some chase-framing in! After she said hi to her friends, I pulled her off to get drinks from the bar, and planted a solid kiss on her. She said "Whew, I'm glad you made the first move, it's always a little awkward to ...." So I guess I still had her guessing as to my intentions. We found a quiet corner and made out a bit, and I would have dragged her home, but logistics were a problem. So I asked if I could put my jacket in her car, we walked to her car in the garage, and I just dove in and pulled her in, too, grinning. She knew what was up by that point, and there wasn't any LMR. We made out, and I slipped my hand up her (short) dress and into her panties within a couple minutes, and shortly after that she orgasmed! Turns out, it doesn't take much for her, which is awesome. I told her to unbuckle my belt, and she did, and rubbed me for a while. I didn't think to pack a condom (note to self, always have a condom!) so we didn't seal the deal, but it didn't matter by that point. I got her home later (she wanted to go after-bar at a friend's house, I told her we should stop by my place to get some liquor to bring, and of course we never made it to the friend's house). I gave her about a dozen orgasms between last night and this morning.

Edit: Another interesting facet to the night. I made out with a girl two weeks ago at another party, and I belatedly got in touch with her on facebook this week, and we arranged a date for next weekend. I thought she wasn't going to be at the bar last night, but somehow she found us! So she saw me with this girl. I'm curious to see if I still get the date from her. I'm planning on acting as though nothing happened, she'll have to be the one to mention it first.
 
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