So I crafted the title so it says almost everything. If you want to know the specifics:
Got her number last week, she works a block away from my place. I went to see her some times there and she seems compliant with me and at least I feel we have sexual tension (girl's at least 8 hot). Gave me her shady Facebook, then her number. We've been texting.
Anyway she told me later she's in a relationship but that they see other people as well. But then proceeds to tell me that she doesn't want to be seen with a guy and be exposed. I ask her if that guy also sees other girls, she tells me he does, and that that is fine.
I don't want to be excesivelly pushy, but she says that it's fine if we meet with some of her friends.
I don't want to do that, and I want her to know. (side note: I sense that meeting her in group first isn't a good idea, but could it?)
I thought of texting her something along this line: "let's go to a place where we look like friends then" + ("if you'll feel safer", "where no one can see us")
The option of inviting her directly to my place seems too risky and difficult to pull, so I steered away from that (I ensured she knows I live a block away tho).
Any insights on this?
Got her number last week, she works a block away from my place. I went to see her some times there and she seems compliant with me and at least I feel we have sexual tension (girl's at least 8 hot). Gave me her shady Facebook, then her number. We've been texting.
Anyway she told me later she's in a relationship but that they see other people as well. But then proceeds to tell me that she doesn't want to be seen with a guy and be exposed. I ask her if that guy also sees other girls, she tells me he does, and that that is fine.
I don't want to be excesivelly pushy, but she says that it's fine if we meet with some of her friends.
I don't want to do that, and I want her to know. (side note: I sense that meeting her in group first isn't a good idea, but could it?)
I thought of texting her something along this line: "let's go to a place where we look like friends then" + ("if you'll feel safer", "where no one can see us")
The option of inviting her directly to my place seems too risky and difficult to pull, so I steered away from that (I ensured she knows I live a block away tho).
Any insights on this?