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It's been on my head, and i need to get this out.
How do you distinguish honesty, like comments and praises and labels, people have given you? and know which support is real?
The thing is, YOU Can't. Actions speaks louder than words, and people look at you from their reference point of view, what you do, and not you. and Support comes when people truly ask and walk through with you, the obstacles that is going on, in your life. I am thinking, why do my girl at that time, says i do things great, when i know i was capable of more, that i was more good at teaching dance, that i was good at relating, and in fact i did, but i needed to progress, and someone to walk with me, and i don't think it is in any woman's interest for a man to better than he is, at that moment. Because anytime a man is better, he will leave, and she can't accept that, (maybe she wasn't an expert to deal with the matter, and wanted to sooth things, maybe she wanted to "settled" me.)
I don't know, really. Everyone is fighting for themselves. You need to really fucking know yourself, because you need to know where you need to go. Women and family and friends, anyone are just like the 80/20 rule in your life.
Because your "20" decides your outcome and where you heading in life, and what you expect, your level of success, the "80" plays a part and will support the major "20". Like Anthony Robbins quoted "People major in the minor things". I am not saying the minor things are not important, because you need negative things to want positive things, you need ugly women to want beautiful women, you need supportive family members and girlfriend and friends, and even Girlschase, but ultimately it's all you, you decide, and the support ppl gives, are like pipes, but you need to know what pipes are going through your a$$.
Sadded, but will get through this confuse period,
Zac
How do you distinguish honesty, like comments and praises and labels, people have given you? and know which support is real?
The thing is, YOU Can't. Actions speaks louder than words, and people look at you from their reference point of view, what you do, and not you. and Support comes when people truly ask and walk through with you, the obstacles that is going on, in your life. I am thinking, why do my girl at that time, says i do things great, when i know i was capable of more, that i was more good at teaching dance, that i was good at relating, and in fact i did, but i needed to progress, and someone to walk with me, and i don't think it is in any woman's interest for a man to better than he is, at that moment. Because anytime a man is better, he will leave, and she can't accept that, (maybe she wasn't an expert to deal with the matter, and wanted to sooth things, maybe she wanted to "settled" me.)
I don't know, really. Everyone is fighting for themselves. You need to really fucking know yourself, because you need to know where you need to go. Women and family and friends, anyone are just like the 80/20 rule in your life.
Because your "20" decides your outcome and where you heading in life, and what you expect, your level of success, the "80" plays a part and will support the major "20". Like Anthony Robbins quoted "People major in the minor things". I am not saying the minor things are not important, because you need negative things to want positive things, you need ugly women to want beautiful women, you need supportive family members and girlfriend and friends, and even Girlschase, but ultimately it's all you, you decide, and the support ppl gives, are like pipes, but you need to know what pipes are going through your a$$.
Sadded, but will get through this confuse period,
Zac
