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I had a girl lying naked on her side in bed reading about killers on her phone (typical woman fare). I went and leaned over her and she said, "I'm not horny." Then she raised her leg up a bit and I took that as a cue she actually was and started rubbing her. Then she raised her leg all the way up into the air, exposing her pussy, while continuing to read her killer stories on the phone. I just took my dick out, put it on her pussy, which was wet, and in a minute was nailing her. So yes, she was horny.
I was thinking about this, and how women's actions often contradict their words. But they don't ALWAYS contradict their words. When a woman is totally focused on you and sucked into your presence/seduction/the vibe, her words are a lot more likely to match her feelings and actions.
So perhaps we can say it is a general rule that the less distracted a woman is, the more her words will tend to approach her actual feelings and her actions? The more distracted/unfocused she is, the less synchrony there tends to be between words + feelings/actions.
Examples:
It's not a perfect correlation. If you have a woman who is distracted, acting disinterested in you, and you approach and she autopilot rejects, that is "synced up" even though she was unfocused. There are other situations where this breaks down, like with super shy women who will shake their heads blushing and swear they aren't into you even when they're totally focused on you and their body language is interested like crazy. There's probably some rule for edge cases like these but I don't know what it would be right at this moment.
Regardless: one more reason to not take women's words at face value, particularly when they are not focused on you/the situation. You've got to be attuned to actions & behaviors too (usually those are going to count for more).
Chase
I was thinking about this, and how women's actions often contradict their words. But they don't ALWAYS contradict their words. When a woman is totally focused on you and sucked into your presence/seduction/the vibe, her words are a lot more likely to match her feelings and actions.
So perhaps we can say it is a general rule that the less distracted a woman is, the more her words will tend to approach her actual feelings and her actions? The more distracted/unfocused she is, the less synchrony there tends to be between words + feelings/actions.
Examples:
- Girl in a bar is putting out obvious "approach me" signs, but is distracted and looking around. When you approach her she may claim she's busy or waiting for someone, but at the same time turn her body toward you and give you inviting body language. Her words say "buzz off" but her body language says "keep talking to me." Distracted = words/actions & feelings unsynced.
- Girl you're on a date with is totally absorbed in you, leaning across the table staring at you, eyes big, rapt attention. In a lull she asks you, "Do you want to keep staying here?" You realize she is asking you to pull her. Her words say "pull me" and her body language says "pull me." Focused = words/actions & feelings synced.
- Late night at the bar or club, you have a girl who is only moderately compliant, she has been scoping the place out, looking for a guy she likes more than you, trying to get another guy to come compete with you for her, but they're all too hesitant with you hanging around her so she gives up and tells you, "Well, you should probably get me out of here." Her words say "pick me up" even though her body language says "I'm not that interested" (but I mean... you can work with that). Once again, distracted = words/actions & feelings unsynced.
It's not a perfect correlation. If you have a woman who is distracted, acting disinterested in you, and you approach and she autopilot rejects, that is "synced up" even though she was unfocused. There are other situations where this breaks down, like with super shy women who will shake their heads blushing and swear they aren't into you even when they're totally focused on you and their body language is interested like crazy. There's probably some rule for edge cases like these but I don't know what it would be right at this moment.
Regardless: one more reason to not take women's words at face value, particularly when they are not focused on you/the situation. You've got to be attuned to actions & behaviors too (usually those are going to count for more).
Chase
