Do Bouncers Really Get Laid?

[Kaida]

I’m thinking of getting a job as a bouncer once i move back to college for the social connections / girl exposure but do they really get laid?

Its a very popular club but I just see the bouncers outside all the time letting people in (some are inside just watching over the party).

Cant imagine how they get laid off that but I may be wrong.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

I posted this on my journal on the last page twice... I was a club promoter for 2 summers and I had a few lays each time but not that many. I don't think it's worth doing for the lays.

 

[Skills]

I’m thinking of getting a job as a bouncer once i move back to college for the social connections / girl exposure but do they really get laid?

Its a very popular club but I just see the bouncers outside all the time letting people in (some are inside just watching over the party).

Cant imagine how they get laid off that but I may be wrong.

Most don't, a very few do, but no different than you getting laid no being a bouncer.. they do get open more but that doesn't translate into lays...

 

[Kaida]

@Karea Ricardus D. @Skills

Yeah lol I thought so. Shit didn’t seem bery conducive to seduction.

If I’m working I want to be learning a skill at the same time whether it be sales or seduction. If I cant find a job that gets lays I’ll just get a sales job lol

What jobs would yall do to get you lays as a college student?

 

[Skills]

@Karea Ricardus D. @Skills

Yeah lol I thought so. Shit didn’t seem bery conducive to seduction.

If I’m working I want to be learning a skill at the same time whether it be sales or seduction. If I cant find a job that gets lays I’ll just get a sales job lol

What jobs would yall do to get you lays as a college student?

A job that will give you time flexibility... Like a campus job .. in school you want the flexibility to sarge and study...

 

[Chase]

@Kaida,

@A2daMIR did well as a bouncer, albeit with pristine frame control and instincts coupled with hilarious zingers. He was also the head of security. IIRC he said his results really started to take off once his muscles were huge AND he got himself promoted to security head. Then he was rocking looks + status + game.

One of the first things I learned in nightclubs was "introduce girls to bouncers." If you chat up a girl and she is okay but not quite cute enough or she isn't really biting, you can tell her, "Hey, have you met Brian, the bouncer from this club? He's a pretty cool guy," and if she is down you just take her over when Brian isn't too occupied and go, "Brian, man, I want you to meet my friend. This is Jeannie!" and let the two of them talk. Unless he is one of the super cool bouncers (very rare), you will see his eyes light up, he gets all excited, starts talking to the girl, etc. I always took that as a sign of how well most bouncers were really doing with girls... if you get excited because someone intros you to a mid-girl, you are probably not swimming in it.

I had a buddy who for a while before I met him ran these Sunday barbecues for bouncers. He and his wingman would invite bouncers they knew + girls they had picked up on but been unable to convert. The girls would come to meet the bouncers and get nightlife connections. The bouncers would come to meet girls and enjoy a barbecue. My buddy and his wing would solidify their connections with the bouncers and become favorites of theirs. I forget it was him or the guy I learned about intro'ing girls to bouncers from, but one of them taught me, "If you can get a bouncer laid, you will get the VIP treatment from him forever." Again, that really only applies if bouncers are not rolling in it already... with rare exceptions (dudes using status + game, like A2daMIR), they are not rolling in it.

That said, it will give you nightlife industry experience, get you connections, and if you have some game you will probably get laid some of the time. You will have an easy in to industry after parties. There are definitely perks.

What jobs would yall do to get you lays as a college student?

• Ski instructor
• Tennis instructor
• Teaching assistant
• Lifeguard at the pool
• Fraternity president
• Maybe bartender

But like bouncer none of these work if you don't combine with game.

Chase

 

[Skills]

@Kaida,

@A2daMIR did well as a bouncer, albeit with pristine frame control and instincts coupled with hilarious zingers. He was also the head of security. IIRC he said his results really started to take off once his muscles were huge AND he got himself promoted to security head. Then he was rocking looks + status + game.

One of the first things I learned in nightclubs was "introduce girls to bouncers." If you chat up a girl and she is okay but not quite cute enough or she isn't really biting, you can tell her, "Hey, have you met Brian, the bouncer from this club? He's a pretty cool guy," and if she is down you just take her over when Brian isn't too occupied and go, "Brian, man, I want you to meet my friend. This is Jeannie!" and let the two of them talk. Unless he is one of the super cool bouncers (very rare), you will see his eyes light up, he gets all excited, starts talking to the girl, etc. I always took that as a sign of how well most bouncers were really doing with girls... if you get excited because someone intros you to a mid-girl, you are probably not swimming in it.

I had a buddy who for a while before I met him ran these Sunday barbecues for bouncers. He and his wingman would invite bouncers they knew + girls they had picked up on but been unable to convert. The girls would come to meet the bouncers and get nightlife connections. The bouncers would come to meet girls and enjoy a barbecue. My buddy and his wing would solidify their connections with the bouncers and become favorites of theirs. I forget it was him or the guy I learned about intro'ing girls to bouncers from, but one of them taught me, "If you can get a bouncer laid, you will get the VIP treatment from him forever." Again, that really only applies if bouncers are not rolling in it already... with rare exceptions (dudes using status + game, like A2daMIR), they are not rolling in it.

That said, it will give you nightlife industry experience, get you connections, and if you have some game you will probably get laid some of the time. You will have an easy in to industry after parties. There are definitely perks.

• Ski instructor
• Tennis instructor
• Teaching assistant
• Lifeguard at the pool
• Fraternity president
• Maybe bartender

But like bouncer none of these work if you don't combine with game.

Chase

I directly gave girls to bouncers, and got them laid...my point is out of 20 bouncers one does ok, for example, but his results are no better than running proper night game... They do get phone numbers and hook up with staff. If i have a choice of being a bouncer or running proper night game .. i would take proper night game... I do like the entrance door man a bit better, but even them, same thing, cosy was a bouncer too... They also lose freedom. The staff access to bottle girls and girl club staff, is a plus, that is a good point...

 

[Gorili]

I can't comment on being a bouncer, but the below is a solid list.

• Ski instructor
• Tennis instructor
• Teaching assistant
• Lifeguard at the pool
• Fraternity president
• Maybe bartender

However, teaching assistant / student instructor is a big no-no. Since the MeToo movement, a large number of universities in the US have updated their Student Code of Conduct and schoolwide policies to explicitly prohibit dating between faculty / staff and students. Here are a few examples from Columbia (page 3) and Harvard (page 5) prohibiting teaching assistants from dating students. All of the big schools pretty much have these policies posted online, so anyone can look them up. They take this stuff really seriously, and the schools that I've gamed at even had one case that made the front page of the school newspaper. You don't want to be that guy...

Two campus jobs that I recommend are tutor at the student center and cashier at the dining hall. More tips below.

Tutor at the student center:

• Pros: When I was in college, I think some tutors were assigned to classes as opposed to subjects. If possible, you want to choose to be a tutor for one of those intro weeder classes with hundreds of students. Most of the students are also freshmen, so their social connections are not as established. This will help maximize the number of new faces that you get exposed to and serve as a revolving door to new leads, while getting the "new girl in town" benefit
• Cons: There's a grade and / or GPA requirement to become a tutor. If your major is something like Celtic Studies, there's barely anyone signing up for tutoring and you are screwed lol

Cashier at the dining hall:

• Pros: Sounds fancy, but your job is to just make sure people swipe their student ID cards before they can eat. You're the face of the dining hall and an authority figure. Every day, you'll be interacting with hundreds of girls. If you make small talk with the girls, focus on the ones that reciprocate, that's going to add up over time. Assuming your fundamentals and game are solid, with the sheer amount of volume, there's no way that you won't be getting new leads. Girls also bring their friends all the time, so there's a good chance that you get a referral as "that good looking dude at the dining hall" that they want their friends to see. Tons of opportunities here like being invited to parties, etc. if you're the cool guy
• Cons: Compared to other dining hall jobs, this one is easy to do and therefore competitive to land. I've had friends in the past who could only get dishwashing jobs, which won't be conducive for our purposes. During rush hours (12 - 1pm for lunch and 6 - 7pm for dinner), you're gonna be constantly swamped with people swiping in that you won't be able to hold a meaningful conversation for long