Do hotter girls have higher standards?

[typewriter]

Recently I realized that though I can consistently have certain girls super into me and willing to do anything I ask, such girls tend to have lower self-esteem, and perhaps experience, in general. At the same time, when talking with more outgoing (and usually hotter) girls, nothing I say has any impact on them.
My question is: why is this the case? Is it because my game is actually improved when talking to someone I consider beneath me, or because hotter girls somehow have higher standards?

 

[ulrich]

It’s because of scarcity.
Since she is social and attractive, it means she has many options so she demands more in a man and test you harder.

As you get better with women you will notice you will start doing the same.

 

[flatron]

Yes. Even though nowadays, 5's are bombarded with lots of messages and offers of sex, 'most' of them know deep down that despite the validation, they're nothing special and compare themselves to their truly beautiful friends (as you have learned, low self esteem, average looking girls tend to be easy)

The very hot girls really do live in a different world. A Hot air hostess I know got hit up by Anthony Joshua a few years ago and you could almost see her mentally comparing every guy that hit on her that night with him as they tried running their game on her, and basically rejecting them on that basis.
Like AJ was now her new benchmark lol.
As the other guy said, she basically has serious options, many of whom you literally have zero chance of competing with.

There's always exceptions though. And It's always been a numbers game. Despite what the 'coaches' want you to believe. So hit on all the very good looking girls until you open one who thinks you're good looking, too, and then shoot your shot with her (escalate/game/whatever you wanna call it)

PS - There IS also an element of, as you say, ones game being a bit tighter when talking to girls who aren't that hot. Although that's very unlikely to be the actual issue. Running perfect game on a girl who isn't into you won't help, for example

 

[Toby2030]

Validation is really powerful. Flip the script and test her harder.

 

[trashKENNUT]

That's what women want you to think.

What makes a girl sleep with you?

- life phase
- relationship phase
- fundamentals, type of men
- chances

Phases is where she is at. Fundamentals and type is your skillset.

Chances is whether she is available and alone.

This is also why history never allow women to be alone. Today's world, you have to be smarter.

Friendzone is a retargeting tactic. Everything is 'email List'.

No men will admit this. And that is also why the world is going to hell. Ppl can't distinct realities. (Not malicious always. Ppl didn't know bread was not good as example)

Anyway, too crazy information. (Self depreciation for the sake of sanity of ppl here).

Hope this helps.

 

[Velasco]

Hope this helps

It didn't

 

[Shake&Bake]

Yes. Even though nowadays, 5's are bombarded with lots of messages and offers of sex, 'most' of them know deep down that despite the validation, they're nothing special and compare themselves to their truly beautiful friends (as you have learned, low self esteem, average looking girls tend to be easy)

The very hot girls really do live in a different world. A Hot air hostess I know got hit up by Anthony Joshua a few years ago and you could almost see her mentally comparing every guy that hit on her that night with him as they tried running their game on her, and basically rejecting them on that basis.
Like AJ was now her new benchmark lol.
As the other guy said, she basically has serious options, many of whom you literally have zero chance of competing with.

There's always exceptions though. And It's always been a numbers game. Despite what the 'coaches' want you to believe. So hit on all the very good looking girls until you open one who thinks you're good looking, too, and then shoot your shot with her (escalate/game/whatever you wanna call it)

PS - There IS also an element of, as you say, ones game being a bit tighter when talking to girls who aren't that hot. Although that's very unlikely to be the actual issue. Running perfect game on a girl who isn't into you won't help, for example

Nah. Even 5s know they are the shit

 

[Beck Bass]

Nah. Even 5s know they are the shit

People treat you (and themselves) how you allow them to. If you treat a 5 like a 9, she will act like a 9.
The problem really is that dudes try to treat her appropriately, but then their lack of abundance shows when she starts treating him bad as well. It's like they say "you're not that hot", then she's like "well you're not as well" and they go like "yeah sorry" and then the game is reset. Why would a high value man that can get better hoes even be talking to an average chick when she's not even treating him properly?

 

[Shake&Bake]

People treat you (and themselves) how you allow them to. If you treat a 5 like a 9, she will act like a 9.
The problem really is that dudes try to treat her appropriately, but then their lack of abundance shows when she starts treating him bad as well. It's like they say "you're not that hot", then she's like "well you're not as well" and they go like "yeah sorry" and then the game is reset. Why would a high value man that can get better hoes even be talking to an average chick when she's not even treating him properly?

No not how it works. It doesn't matter if you personally treat her like a 9. If most guys do then she will act like is. It doesn't matter if you did.