Does failing a shit test once means = game over in the mind of a female. And is it true that if you pass a shit test it could be that in the woman mind you didn’t pass it? So like for some women you would pass the test with one response, but with some other women you wouldn’t pass it with the line even though it was the same question
Does failing a shit test once means = game over
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It depends on how bad you fail.
You could fail in a way that tells her “maybe I am not a great fit” or in a way that tells her “you don’t get it at all”.
It’s not binary.
And yes, “passing a test” is dependent on what was the woman’s expectation.
For example, a girl may ask you “Do you say the same stuff to all the girls you meet?”
You could answer that with “Only the cute ones”… if the girl was expecting some flirting that would be a pass but if the girl is feeling like you’re too much of a player, that reply might make her autoreject.
Calibration is important.
Most beginners struggle with confidence and flirting, that’s why most replies to “shit tests” seem to point that direction… but once you have that covered, you need to calibrate to the girl in question.
Interesting thanks for your reply. Let’s say she is in auto rejection and she keeps giving you shit test would it be smarter then to fail them deliberately? That’s how I understood it now or like if you sense she is gone cold because of your low attainability
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Shit test = flirting
If a girl is shit testing you it means she's considering sleeping with you but wants to make sure you are the "right guy". There really isn't one way to pass a shit test and it's very contextual like @ulrich said
But a trick to get the answer she wants to hear is to give a blank expression and look away to divert your attention to something else. Usually when you do this she will try and get your attention back and also answer the shit test for you
Example
Girl: "Do you do this with all the girls?"
Me: *Bored Expression* ... then look away
Girl: "I knew it, you're a total player aren't you"
Me: *Bored Expression*
Girl: "You players are all the same"
Me: "If you say so, but hey you never finished telling me about that fight you had with your grandma"
It's a low effort way of handling shit tests but also helps you because you remain vague and ambiguous. Giving her no logical reason to reject you and give you a nice boost in tension and wiggle room to continue the seduction
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How do you know whether you failed the shit test, any indicator that shows it from the side of the woman? and how detrimental is it when you fail it once?
is for example a woman burst in laughing at your response a pass?
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Compliance will give you the answer.
I honestly don't care about failing some tests. I'm not a mind reader and not perfect. But what I care about is leading the interaction closer to sex.
So ask yourself this..
1) Is she letting me get closer?
2) Is she receptive to my touch?
3) Is she staring into my eyes?
4) Is she touching me back?
5) Is she agreeing with my sexual frames?
6) Is she following my lead and giving positive responses when I ask for compliance?
These things will give you a better indication of where you are at. Because I have a feeling you are too focused on having a good interaction rather than just getting laid
TLDR: You don't need to be perfect or smooth to get laid. You just need a girl that will follow your lead
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Perfect thanks