Does leaving your number on a piece of paper work?

[razir110]

I know it's not the best approach.

But is there a way to do it right? Or say, the best way possible?

Yesterday there was this really cute girl in my uni we exchanged a few words in the cafeteria and then she left to join her friends and she was with them all time, so I couldn't really break in and talk to her without being awkward.

I didn't see her anymore and I won't be back in college for a few weeks, so I went to the cafeteria and asked the waitress to give her a piece of paper I gave, ones she saw the girl, that said "Hi there! My name is X, (the guy who you met at the cafeteria.) My contact is. take care" and I wrote nothing else. I didn't want to write any message of whatever, I thought it would be bad.

Ladies tend to not call guys who give them their number. But here the situation is a bit different. Here she didn'«t say "then give me your number" thing to not call me later. I sort of gave it to her myself.

What are your thought here?

PS: Franco, etc PLEASE write an article on how to approach women who are in informal situations with their groups (mixed) of guy and girlfriends!!!

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I would usually only do this with a waitress, and it has worked for me. Other than that, it will come off like you were afraid to ask her out when you had the chance (e.g., she's not going to take the time to consider that maybe you forgot or something else).

Have you heard back? Results are better than the advice of any man.

 

[razir110]

Hi, thank you for your reply.

It is true that I could have talked to her more. She was in a large group all the time though, except the time when we briefly spoke in the line at the cafeteria.

Then we crossed again, she was with her friends we looked at each other and there was that long look with a smile, but there really was no way to approach her without intruding into her group.

Look, should I do that? Like break into a group where the girl I am interested in is? To me this seems to be the black belt of talking to girls. At least to me it seems far more intimidating than to talk to a girl that is alone or with a girlfriend.

And no, I haven't heard back, the lady told me she would give her the note this morning, but I'm not even sure if the girl will go back to the cafeteria or college today or any other day, etc lol. It was a coin toss, since other way I would never see her again anyways.

I am sorry to insist on this, but if you guys published a guide on how to break into groups of friends specifically to talk to their women... It would be awesome!

Cheers