Hi guys,
I know don't shit where you eat but since i'll probably leave this company in a few months, idgaf.
There is this cute girl at work with whom we sometimes talk for hours, BUT at the same time she gives me 0 ioi and i don't know where to stand.
I broke the touch barrier (light touch to shoulder, legs touching, etc..,) but she has no reaction, it's actually the first time i met a girl who gives me no reaction when i'm slighty touching her, usually they back off or show some interest, but there? nada, nyet. It's like nothing happened.
She also give no ioi, she don't laugh at my bad joke but still laugh at my usual jokes, she hold eye contact but not too much and breaking to the side.
But at the same time she is willing to spend hours to talk with me to the point we overtime too much and lose track of time. Also she has never mentioned a boyfriend.
Is this a good or bad things? Where to stand?
I can't escalate more if she is not open, i still need my job for now, asking her out is the same i don't wanna risk gossip if she says no, it could ruin my work reputation but i'm willing to risk if she would give me clear iois.
In a non-work environnement i would just escalate more and try to polarize her until i get a clear sign of attraction, but at work it's way more riskier, i can't risk touching her face or thigh.
So, what is your thought? what would you do?
I know don't shit where you eat but since i'll probably leave this company in a few months, idgaf.
There is this cute girl at work with whom we sometimes talk for hours, BUT at the same time she gives me 0 ioi and i don't know where to stand.
I broke the touch barrier (light touch to shoulder, legs touching, etc..,) but she has no reaction, it's actually the first time i met a girl who gives me no reaction when i'm slighty touching her, usually they back off or show some interest, but there? nada, nyet. It's like nothing happened.
She also give no ioi, she don't laugh at my bad joke but still laugh at my usual jokes, she hold eye contact but not too much and breaking to the side.
But at the same time she is willing to spend hours to talk with me to the point we overtime too much and lose track of time. Also she has never mentioned a boyfriend.
Is this a good or bad things? Where to stand?
I can't escalate more if she is not open, i still need my job for now, asking her out is the same i don't wanna risk gossip if she says no, it could ruin my work reputation but i'm willing to risk if she would give me clear iois.
In a non-work environnement i would just escalate more and try to polarize her until i get a clear sign of attraction, but at work it's way more riskier, i can't risk touching her face or thigh.
So, what is your thought? what would you do?