So I’ve been dating that girl who’s into street dance and she used to be be a competitive Latin dancer before. I really thought she has given up Latin but recently she brought it up and said she would like to dance Latin competitively again.
And that is what makes me feel uncomfortable - I feel bad for not letting her pursue her passion but at the same time I am not cool with her having fun and having so much of physical contact with other guys. We had an argument over it yesterday and we kinda agreed she’ll do it casually without having a permanent partner this summer. I am feeling slightly lost since I still think that’s not a beneficial thing to a monogamous relationship. Of course, the chance of something happening is low but just like clubs I believe it’s not smart to put yourself in tempting/risky situations.
Are my concerns not that big of a deal or should I just end this relationship?
And that is what makes me feel uncomfortable - I feel bad for not letting her pursue her passion but at the same time I am not cool with her having fun and having so much of physical contact with other guys. We had an argument over it yesterday and we kinda agreed she’ll do it casually without having a permanent partner this summer. I am feeling slightly lost since I still think that’s not a beneficial thing to a monogamous relationship. Of course, the chance of something happening is low but just like clubs I believe it’s not smart to put yourself in tempting/risky situations.
Are my concerns not that big of a deal or should I just end this relationship?