@Yaxir,
i just looked and she was very calm, composed .. and if i'm not mistaken .. receptive towards the guy ?
does this calm behavior from her give it away that she's really into the guy ?
but then what was different about her from the other girls, all of them were laughing and thought they were playing a game ?
i just don't understand how to differentiate this 'attraction' signals from the 'friendly' signals ?
see the problem i'm having ?
hope you and others can shed light on this
cheers !
All right, here's a quick breakdown...
The first girl (red scarf around her neck) looks somewhat interested. She might be just interested in him socially, or she might like him romantically. It's a bit hard to say. I'd give her 60/40 into him romantically/into him only socially odds. She keeps her head focused on him and is doing these little smiles she's trying slightly to suppress, which is a sign she feels shy showing that smile, which means it probably signals something more than idle curiosity. However she keeps rocking her body, which is typically a sign of discomfort, and turning away from him before turning back. Sometimes inexperienced girls will do that because they're nervous you're going to ask them out, though. She also brushes her hair back at one point, which can be a nonverbal sign of interest. And she smiles giving her phone number.
On the other hand, she mirrors his expressiveness a lot, which can be a sign of NOT being that interested, and instead being more social and friendly. She also keeps herself physically farther away from him. She laughs a lot, which can signal interest, but women will do that when you're funny and they're just being social, too.
The second girl (pink shawl... the one I noted is very into him), is giving him bedroom eyes (eyelids partway shut), and keeping a constant smile on her mouth, while otherwise staying mostly motionless, totally absorbed in him as he's speaking. She's giving him something the old pickup community used to call the 'Doggie Dinner Bowl Look' (DDB). She seems like she's trying to suppress her smile/laughter a bit, but it keeps coming out. She touches her face a lot (rubbing her nose), which is something people do when they're nervous. She has the "I'm just about to laugh but trying not to!" smile on her face when he hands her the phone, which is a very attracted smile for most girls. She also does a lot of looking at him then looking very quickly down at the phone (rapidly looking down is a sign of submission). Before they trade numbers, she holds her phone up in front of her expectantly, as if trying to hand it to him, and repeatedly fiddles with it with her fingers, clearly wanting to do something with it (i.e., trade contacts with him).
Girls #s 3 and 4 don't seem into him romantically, so I won't bother with them.
Girl #5, in the full hijab, also seems pretty into him. She's giving him an underlook (staring at someone while your head is tilted down), leaning her head in toward him, physically close to him, staring at him hard, fiddling with her hand right in front of her. She also progressively turns more of her torso to face him, ultimately fully facing him, which is another sign of interest.
It's probably not a coincidence he put two girls into him at the beginning and one into him at the end, and sandwiched the two who were just being social in the middle. The beginning is where you make the biggest impact on the viewer, and the end is the parting shot they're left with.
Anyway though, this stuff is mostly unconscious.
If you approach enough you will learn to recognize it without having to know specifically what you are looking at. Your mind will just pick up on patterns: "When girls do this, things go well with them after. When girls do that, usually things turn out to just be social." Etc.
Moral of the story: make some approaches and start learning to pick this stuff out on your own!
Chase
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