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brunomcf

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Hey guys! (sorry for the long text, but I need so serious help here)

So, there's this girl named Helenka, who I met in dance classes (great way to meet women) and became good friends. She was studying in my city and just moved back to Prague.
She's quite hot, and she one of the sweetest persons I've met.

At the begining when we started going out, I had 2 chanches to kiss her lips, but for some reason I had no balls to do so.
I was allawys really nice to her (open the car door for her, and on). But when I said I had a surprise for her (would take her out for dinner at fancy place), she said I was trying to move into a relantionship, and she wasn't looking for one as she was here only for a coupe of months.

To be honest I kinda used her to forget someone I had a crush into very recently. Then I found out Helenka was a much better women than her.
I kept trying to invite her out, but she said she was sick all the time. And tha was true, but if she reall wanted to would gone out with me.

So, when she got better we gone out lots of times. And I realised I was starting to fall in love with her.
Then I got to know she recently started this odd relationship. So here's what happens with that:

-She met a guy in Lisbon who lived in her city in Prague. He prolly moved fast and swept off her feet
-She thinks she's his GF, but he was still living with his former GF and had the relatioship on facebook for a while (jus removed it reently)
-They were together only one day in Lisbon, and a couple in Porto. She said she hasn't even kissed him yet.

On the last days things got really exciting between the two of us. She finally put up some investment on me as she insited to have launch with me and paid for it.
Gave her in Porto one goodbye massage. Roomy was nextbed trying to sleep, she was topless laying facedown, and all I could do was fingering her.
She avoided making noises, but shaken her legs a lot when she had orgarms.
She left me all her stuff that wouldn't fit on her bags.

When saying goodbyem she was crying, huging me really hard, and also kissing me really hard all over my face except mouth (I was expecting her to do so, as she had a BF, and had to be her decision).
She said she would come back ASAP to Porto, and she didn't wanted to leave at all (didn't mention her BF as someone holding her to Prague).

As she was going to have a 25 hour airport scale in Lisbon I decided to surprise her at the airport.
We did some city site seing, and then crashed at my friends place (I was mad she wanted to crash at a friend of a friend she didn't even meet. But the guy was so pushy on the phone, he almost got her sleeping at his place).

At my friends place, she asked me to talk to her about the last girl I had a crush on. But didn't say much about it.
We slept together in the same bed, gave her another massage. But this time she had her hands on vagina to protect it (lol).
She said she didn't wanted this time because the last night she was confused if she wanted to have sex or not, and decided not to.

I tried to seduce her during the night with no sucess. Before going to airport I tried to finger her one last time, she let it happen this time.
And when I was about to prenetrate her,she said she was late to fight, and we could do that other time (Wtf, I may never see her again...)

At the airport goodbye, she almost cried again, and she would get back ASAP on vacation.
She also said she seen no future for us as a relationship. I was sad when I heard that, but then I realised if she didn't thought about it, she wouldn't even bring that up, right?
I forgot ofering her a rose or other flower. This would prolly work on her as she's a very romantic old fashioned girl.
She likes guys mostly for their personality, and not as for the looks as much.

I've tried to wait for her and let her do the internet talking. But after 3 days, I decided to say sth. She replied that message, but didn't reply the last one (just chity chat anyway, no important stuff asked)

Question is, how do I keep the flame burning? She's really romantic, maybe I should send her flowers with a poem or sth.
Or a postcard with my perfum in it (she loved it so much, Coolwater powa!)

I wish I had 500€ to fly to Prague and stay there a couple of days. Maybe in April I'll have money to do so, as I have started my own company now in March.
Meanwhile, I just need to keep the flame burning.
And also hope, that guy in Prague is a jerky player, and she finds out about it. Problem is, she's a bit naive and easy to trick...

Thanks for reading the logn text.
Cheers :)
 

Penguin

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Unless you're moving to where she is, or she is moving to where you are, then the best thing to do is continue sleeping with attractive women where you live. She can't complain, because she claimed to see no future for you. However, doing so may make her jealous / intrigued / wet and will get you even more practice and experience. Don't waste your time having endless conversation or investing in her.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Tyme2k

Cro-Magnon Man
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Unless you're moving to where she is, or she is moving to where you are, then the best thing to do is continue sleeping with attractive women where you live. She can't complain, because she claimed to see no future for you. However, doing so may make her jealous / intrigued / wet and will get you even more practice and experience. Don't waste your time having endless conversation or investing in her.

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