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Summary:
- how do you make a dominant girl just "let go"?
- Likely answer is more dominance and more foreplay....?
Finally closed the girl from my LR- but I'm wondering what is going on.
So this girl has been difficult all along but she's my type and hot so I put up with it. Last time we met (5th date) we half had sex but she was resisting all the way but it was clear she wanted it (she came really hard from fingering on the 3rd date).
So this time - I couldn't be bothered with playing around. While we were in the kitchen I pushed her against the counter kissed neck/escalated/fingered/pulled down jeans -turned her around and literally forced it in and she liked it- just twice because I didn't have condom- I stopped to pick her up and take her upstairs to the bedroom (shared kitchen) BUT she was grabbing the door frame to stop me shouting "NO I want to eat first!" "we'll do it after" making it all rational, she talks to me in a sort of mother voice using my name and being all serious lol - dammit stop that!
After meal I had to do gradual escalation in bed where she was constantly fighting it - "non-aligning" and tensing her legs to make it difficult - she says its because she's nervous I'll hurt her. She then made it clear that she really regretted not letting me take her upstairs earlier and wished she had
I persisted and finally got it in but it was hurting her - I think mainly because I was bored of foreplay after 3 dates of only foreplay - so I couldn't get into it cause she was constantly tensing up
I think this is all BULL, would anyone agree that the being logical and fighting is just some kind of test to see my dominance - I have had some problems before with her trying to take dominance from me. I think what she needs is me to just take her whenever and wherever I want and not take a no! - I am usually very dominant and used to girls just letting go control in bed so this is phasing me a bit cause she won't let go
- how do you make a dominant girl just "let go"?
- Likely answer is more dominance and more foreplay....?
Finally closed the girl from my LR- but I'm wondering what is going on.
So this girl has been difficult all along but she's my type and hot so I put up with it. Last time we met (5th date) we half had sex but she was resisting all the way but it was clear she wanted it (she came really hard from fingering on the 3rd date).
So this time - I couldn't be bothered with playing around. While we were in the kitchen I pushed her against the counter kissed neck/escalated/fingered/pulled down jeans -turned her around and literally forced it in and she liked it- just twice because I didn't have condom- I stopped to pick her up and take her upstairs to the bedroom (shared kitchen) BUT she was grabbing the door frame to stop me shouting "NO I want to eat first!" "we'll do it after" making it all rational, she talks to me in a sort of mother voice using my name and being all serious lol - dammit stop that!
After meal I had to do gradual escalation in bed where she was constantly fighting it - "non-aligning" and tensing her legs to make it difficult - she says its because she's nervous I'll hurt her. She then made it clear that she really regretted not letting me take her upstairs earlier and wished she had
I persisted and finally got it in but it was hurting her - I think mainly because I was bored of foreplay after 3 dates of only foreplay - so I couldn't get into it cause she was constantly tensing up
I think this is all BULL, would anyone agree that the being logical and fighting is just some kind of test to see my dominance - I have had some problems before with her trying to take dominance from me. I think what she needs is me to just take her whenever and wherever I want and not take a no! - I am usually very dominant and used to girls just letting go control in bed so this is phasing me a bit cause she won't let go