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Yet another one of my field reports from last night , only one approach and one hookup , nothing much , learned quite a bit tho.
My friends and I went out for few drinks , changed 3 bars and were ready to go home , but we went to this last club that we go out very often during weekends. I was tired as hell , and wanted to go home asap. Then when i went to Toilet i saw this girl looking at me ( toilet in this club is like smoking area and often a hookup area
) . i slowly lingered close to her and she said
HER:im looking for my friend , i hope she is OK
ME: im sure she is somewhere around
-i gave her 10 second eye contact with slow spreading smile and said:
ME: If you are going to look at me with those eyes of your , you should at least tell me your name (kudos to xcrunner for this tip)
HER: *smiling* And how am i looking at you ?
ME: Like this .. *same 10 second EC as before*
HER: *smile , eyes down* (Gotcha this time!!)
-I had a scarf and a sweater and she said:
HER: hmm , this scarf is not matching this sweater
ME: *Took it off ,put it around her and pulled her in (sight resistance here)*
- Her friend comes out of toilet (with some guy ,
)
- i gave both of them skeptical look and smiled
- We are all off to main area
-30 seconds after we sat , i reached my hand to her and she tried to resist
- I looked at her girl friend with same look i gave to her few moments earlier and made a gesture like (I dont knooow)
-Her friend started pushing her ....go go
- I took her hand firmly , placed it behind her back , pulled her in , and manhandle kissed her (no resistance whatsoever)
We were together for 10-15 more minutes and her friends just started packing , she came to me and said
HER: We have to go now (with sad smile)
I do not know why i did not tell her to stay and her friends can go
Instead i reached out my phone and said "Give me your number" and looks like she was a bit disappointed i did not try to stop her from leaving (realized that after she left and cursed myself for that) . No phone number ,i let her...
How would you handle this , what would you have told her to convince her not to leave.
- John
My friends and I went out for few drinks , changed 3 bars and were ready to go home , but we went to this last club that we go out very often during weekends. I was tired as hell , and wanted to go home asap. Then when i went to Toilet i saw this girl looking at me ( toilet in this club is like smoking area and often a hookup area
HER:im looking for my friend , i hope she is OK
ME: im sure she is somewhere around
-i gave her 10 second eye contact with slow spreading smile and said:
ME: If you are going to look at me with those eyes of your , you should at least tell me your name (kudos to xcrunner for this tip)
HER: *smiling* And how am i looking at you ?
ME: Like this .. *same 10 second EC as before*
HER: *smile , eyes down* (Gotcha this time!!)
-I had a scarf and a sweater and she said:
HER: hmm , this scarf is not matching this sweater
ME: *Took it off ,put it around her and pulled her in (sight resistance here)*
- Her friend comes out of toilet (with some guy ,
- i gave both of them skeptical look and smiled
- We are all off to main area
-30 seconds after we sat , i reached my hand to her and she tried to resist
- I looked at her girl friend with same look i gave to her few moments earlier and made a gesture like (I dont knooow)
-Her friend started pushing her ....go go
- I took her hand firmly , placed it behind her back , pulled her in , and manhandle kissed her (no resistance whatsoever)
We were together for 10-15 more minutes and her friends just started packing , she came to me and said
HER: We have to go now (with sad smile)
I do not know why i did not tell her to stay and her friends can go
Instead i reached out my phone and said "Give me your number" and looks like she was a bit disappointed i did not try to stop her from leaving (realized that after she left and cursed myself for that) . No phone number ,i let her...
How would you handle this , what would you have told her to convince her not to leave.
- John