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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I got this one fairly often. Half of the time it was legit, but another half pretty sure it was a test.
Good way to respond?
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I would turn it back on them playfully. Ie. "Please you were the one with your paws all over me. *Smile wink*. The girls that like you will play along, like roll their eyes and smile or something and will realize they were overreacting, the girls that aren't interested well you don't want them. You could also pretend offense, etc.

I wouldn't look at the responses they give you, I'd instead look at your touch. What are you communicating with your touch? Is it calibrated? Is it moving to fast? How are you communicating? Etc. Look at the root not the branch.
 
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Modern Human
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Depends on the context. Ever watch Mad Men? Check out this scene:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qZXGf0Kft7k

Badass, right? Some girls love trying to order you around and get super turned on when you dominate them.

On the other hand, you have girls who are very uncomfortable with you that you are misreading so bad that she has to verbally try to get you to stop. Not a good place to be. Back off and get her more comfortable. You may need to address some objections.

To tell the difference, react slowly and try to find signs that she is turned on.

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I watched the scene. It's real gold.
Yeah, it depended on the the situation. I still need work on reading.
 
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