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So I know everyone is dying for a follow up to my recent very popular field report where I brought a chick back to my place and she bounced right after we started kissing--well here it is! (jk no one responded to my shitty field report)
So the day after I got plastered on my first ever date from cold approach in a foreign country, I am naturally fairly hung over. I chill in my apartment until mid day and then decide to go on a walk to a nearby university (as suggested to me by @Atlas IV). And, obviously, I plan to hit up girls on the way. Maybe a mile into my walk a pretty girl in a very nice dress goes walking past me. I stop for a moment and watch her getting further away. Then my hung over ass jogs up to her from behind and I make the approach. I speak to her in horrible Spanish, but I focus more on my vibe than my words, and she seems interested. I then use google translate to tell her I noticed her beautiful dress and thought I'd say hi. Then I ask her in my shitty Spanish if she is single, and she says "si". So I propose a date and get her number. Sweet.
That night I'm chilling at the crib texting with her. I ask her what her plans are that night. She says she might meet a friend. I let it go and keep bantering with her about random topics (didn't really want a date that night anyways as I got drunk on a date the night before and preferred to rest. Also, now that I think about it, I think the text bantering may have played a significant role in the pickup. We actually connected on a few topics, specifically our pet cats and our enjoyment of plants.) After this connecting she says she's free the next morning and ask if I want to meet for a coffee. I'm a bit hesitant about doing a morning coffee date, but I figure maybe we'll hit it off and then we might get together another time, so I agree. Subsequently I realize that there is also a possibility we get together after getting coffee, though I don't think it's very likely. In fact I've never actually had a day time date lead directly to sex...until now.
The next morning we meet at the coffee shop and she's looking fine with a short skirt and some very artistic jewelry. I physically inspect her jewelry (necklace and arm band) to get some touch/compliance in right away. We sit across from each other and chat using google translate for a little over an hour. She speaks no English whatsoever. I enjoy the cadence of the date. I'm starting to understand on a deeper level the notion that WHAT you say doesn't matter that much. Facial expression, tone, body language--those are what really matter. Despite the fact that we are communicating a small amount of linguistic information, we are conveying plenty of body language, facial expression etc. And I can sense there is attraction building.
I feel like she might be down so I decide it's time to push things forward or end the date. I ask what her plans are for the rest of the day, if she has time to hang longer of if she needs to be going. She tells me she has until 3, and it's 11:15. Giggity. We leave the coffee shop and she tells me she's sorry if she was cold when I approached her, and that she is enjoying herself. She also asks if I drink alcohol. I ask her why she is asking--is it because she wants to have a drink? She says sure. I happen to have 2 beers left from my previous failed date, and tell her I have 2 at my apartment if she wants to go back and drink them and share some music (one of the topics we connected on during the date was a mutual enjoyment of rap and r&b). She says she's down.
We get back, crack the beers, and I put on some music. I set the timer on my watch in attempt to observe the 10 minute kiss rule. I'm leaning back comfortably on the couch and she is seated next to me, but she's leaning forward somewhat awkwardly. She's not ready to lean back and get cozy with me. I'm feeling kind of awkward and not sure how to proceed. I pull her gently to lean back but she resists. I drop it for the moment and fire up google translate to get some banter going to ease the tension. She says something about wanting to get to know me better so I figure she needs a little more connecting before getting physical, and maybe she needs to see that I am the same guy I was at the coffee shop in this more high stakes situation.
We banter a bit and she starts smiling and seeming more relaxed. By the way, the whole time I am touching her--putting my hand on her leg, caressing her back, putting my hand on the back of her neck, playing with her hair. My timer is at about 20 minutes. Despite seeming a bit more comfortable, she is still leaning forward. I think about just going for the kiss but the gap seems to big. Instead, I take her arm and put it over my shoulders, so she has to turn towards me. Then I go for the kiss and she enthusiastically kisses me back.
We kiss for a bit and then I remember to pull back. I tell her via google translate the she tastes good. Then we get back to it. After a minute or 2 I go to take her top off but she resists. I back off and resume kissing. I try again for the top, she resists. I pick her up and toss her on the bed (literally, but only after doing a fake throw and seeing she is cool with it). We snuggle on the bed and she tells me she's hesitant about getting together so soon. I tell her we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to do and that I'm just glad that she's here with me. I take my shirt off. We snuggle more and then start kissing passionately again. I go for the top and she doesn't resist this time. I lick her nipples and start rubbing her clit. She spreads her legs and starts moaning and then we become lovers.
As I'm banging her I look at her beautiful exotic face and realize that my dream of going to a foreign country, cold approaching a chick, and making her my lover, is COMING TRUE RIGHT NOW! And it's just as good as, if not better, than I imagined. Real talk, this is the type of shit that makes life worth living. We take a shower together, bang again in the shower, listen to more music, snuggle, kiss, and finally bang a third time. Funny enough, before the third time I go to lick her pussy and she initiates a 69, which is the first time I've done that! I liked it.
Then she gets ready to go meet her friend, with whom she will travel back to her small town 40 minutes outside of the city. As we're waiting for her uber she suggests a restaurant nearby, and I ask if I should wait to go until she can join me, clearly conveying that I want to see her again. She says she is going back to her town and it is difficult to get back to the city. I'm a bit bummed by this, not going to lie. In all honesty, I would have gladly just chilled with her for the rest of my vacation. Maybe this sentiment of wanting more with her leaked through and she didn't like it. Or maybe she just doesn't have much money and it really is a lot for her to come into the city. Or maybe she just wanted a one day stand and nothing more. I don't know, and frankly I now think it's for the best since now I can spend the rest of my vacay doing more cold approach and hopefully racking up more wins.
Yeah...I'm gonna remember this one for a long time. Really, really, really cool shit.
Edit: forgot to include that she mentions to me during our date that she does modeling here and there, which doesn't surprise me.
So the day after I got plastered on my first ever date from cold approach in a foreign country, I am naturally fairly hung over. I chill in my apartment until mid day and then decide to go on a walk to a nearby university (as suggested to me by @Atlas IV). And, obviously, I plan to hit up girls on the way. Maybe a mile into my walk a pretty girl in a very nice dress goes walking past me. I stop for a moment and watch her getting further away. Then my hung over ass jogs up to her from behind and I make the approach. I speak to her in horrible Spanish, but I focus more on my vibe than my words, and she seems interested. I then use google translate to tell her I noticed her beautiful dress and thought I'd say hi. Then I ask her in my shitty Spanish if she is single, and she says "si". So I propose a date and get her number. Sweet.
That night I'm chilling at the crib texting with her. I ask her what her plans are that night. She says she might meet a friend. I let it go and keep bantering with her about random topics (didn't really want a date that night anyways as I got drunk on a date the night before and preferred to rest. Also, now that I think about it, I think the text bantering may have played a significant role in the pickup. We actually connected on a few topics, specifically our pet cats and our enjoyment of plants.) After this connecting she says she's free the next morning and ask if I want to meet for a coffee. I'm a bit hesitant about doing a morning coffee date, but I figure maybe we'll hit it off and then we might get together another time, so I agree. Subsequently I realize that there is also a possibility we get together after getting coffee, though I don't think it's very likely. In fact I've never actually had a day time date lead directly to sex...until now.
The next morning we meet at the coffee shop and she's looking fine with a short skirt and some very artistic jewelry. I physically inspect her jewelry (necklace and arm band) to get some touch/compliance in right away. We sit across from each other and chat using google translate for a little over an hour. She speaks no English whatsoever. I enjoy the cadence of the date. I'm starting to understand on a deeper level the notion that WHAT you say doesn't matter that much. Facial expression, tone, body language--those are what really matter. Despite the fact that we are communicating a small amount of linguistic information, we are conveying plenty of body language, facial expression etc. And I can sense there is attraction building.
I feel like she might be down so I decide it's time to push things forward or end the date. I ask what her plans are for the rest of the day, if she has time to hang longer of if she needs to be going. She tells me she has until 3, and it's 11:15. Giggity. We leave the coffee shop and she tells me she's sorry if she was cold when I approached her, and that she is enjoying herself. She also asks if I drink alcohol. I ask her why she is asking--is it because she wants to have a drink? She says sure. I happen to have 2 beers left from my previous failed date, and tell her I have 2 at my apartment if she wants to go back and drink them and share some music (one of the topics we connected on during the date was a mutual enjoyment of rap and r&b). She says she's down.
We get back, crack the beers, and I put on some music. I set the timer on my watch in attempt to observe the 10 minute kiss rule. I'm leaning back comfortably on the couch and she is seated next to me, but she's leaning forward somewhat awkwardly. She's not ready to lean back and get cozy with me. I'm feeling kind of awkward and not sure how to proceed. I pull her gently to lean back but she resists. I drop it for the moment and fire up google translate to get some banter going to ease the tension. She says something about wanting to get to know me better so I figure she needs a little more connecting before getting physical, and maybe she needs to see that I am the same guy I was at the coffee shop in this more high stakes situation.
We banter a bit and she starts smiling and seeming more relaxed. By the way, the whole time I am touching her--putting my hand on her leg, caressing her back, putting my hand on the back of her neck, playing with her hair. My timer is at about 20 minutes. Despite seeming a bit more comfortable, she is still leaning forward. I think about just going for the kiss but the gap seems to big. Instead, I take her arm and put it over my shoulders, so she has to turn towards me. Then I go for the kiss and she enthusiastically kisses me back.
We kiss for a bit and then I remember to pull back. I tell her via google translate the she tastes good. Then we get back to it. After a minute or 2 I go to take her top off but she resists. I back off and resume kissing. I try again for the top, she resists. I pick her up and toss her on the bed (literally, but only after doing a fake throw and seeing she is cool with it). We snuggle on the bed and she tells me she's hesitant about getting together so soon. I tell her we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to do and that I'm just glad that she's here with me. I take my shirt off. We snuggle more and then start kissing passionately again. I go for the top and she doesn't resist this time. I lick her nipples and start rubbing her clit. She spreads her legs and starts moaning and then we become lovers.
As I'm banging her I look at her beautiful exotic face and realize that my dream of going to a foreign country, cold approaching a chick, and making her my lover, is COMING TRUE RIGHT NOW! And it's just as good as, if not better, than I imagined. Real talk, this is the type of shit that makes life worth living. We take a shower together, bang again in the shower, listen to more music, snuggle, kiss, and finally bang a third time. Funny enough, before the third time I go to lick her pussy and she initiates a 69, which is the first time I've done that! I liked it.
Then she gets ready to go meet her friend, with whom she will travel back to her small town 40 minutes outside of the city. As we're waiting for her uber she suggests a restaurant nearby, and I ask if I should wait to go until she can join me, clearly conveying that I want to see her again. She says she is going back to her town and it is difficult to get back to the city. I'm a bit bummed by this, not going to lie. In all honesty, I would have gladly just chilled with her for the rest of my vacation. Maybe this sentiment of wanting more with her leaked through and she didn't like it. Or maybe she just doesn't have much money and it really is a lot for her to come into the city. Or maybe she just wanted a one day stand and nothing more. I don't know, and frankly I now think it's for the best since now I can spend the rest of my vacay doing more cold approach and hopefully racking up more wins.
Yeah...I'm gonna remember this one for a long time. Really, really, really cool shit.
Edit: forgot to include that she mentions to me during our date that she does modeling here and there, which doesn't surprise me.
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