DTF Hinge Girl Unmatched Me Right Before Setting Up The Date

[TSRaven]

So I've been starting to have some success with online dating and this is one of the first times that I've had a a woman be this blunt with her intentions to meet up and fuck. Things seemed to be going well in the interaction and just like that... unmatched.

Should I have gone with a soft close towards a date at my place to hangout/watch a movie?

Genuinely not sure but I look forward to hear your thoughts. Here's my Hinge interaction with her:

I liked her caption: “I’m weirdly attracted to casual fun with no strings attached.”



Her: Hey good morning

Me: cute, curvy w sexy seductive eyes… what’s the catch

Her: Aww thanks

Her: I’m good just worn out, what are you looking for on here?

Me: something casual nothing serious, wby

Her: Same nothing serious just nsa

Her: Just wanna get laid. Have some fun and see if we click

Me: agreed we gotta vibe first

Me: how’s ur schedule looking


Unmatched afterwards…

 

[Fuck This]

Someone else filled her hole..... in her schedule.

Easy come, easy go

 

[ulrich]

She was most likely just playing the part and then got bored.
You can’t really expect that just because she says she wants the same as you, she actually means it.

Besides, that was a super fast escalation:
I’m looking for sex — Me too — Let’s meet

Without some comfort to cement it, this is extremely prone to implode.

 

[TSRaven]

She was most likely just playing the part and then got bored.
You can’t really expect that just because she says she wants the same as you, she actually means it.

Besides, that was a super fast escalation:
I’m looking for sex — Me too — Let’s meet

Without some comfort to cement it, this is extremely prone to implode.

I see what you mean.

 

[Skills]

Dude take a look at this post i explain the dynamics in these types of scenarios

Socializing - Dynamics of women being the sexual aggressor/opening/taking the masculine role...

Some of the guys with more sex appeal, seducers, cool guys will experience women taking the masculine role and/or being the sexual aggressor.... A lot of the time, people fuck this up, at least i have for years..... Have you ever heard from guys saying "avoid sexting" for example is a...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[TSRaven]

Dude take a look at this post i explain the dynamics in these types of scenarios

Socializing - Dynamics of women being the sexual aggressor/opening/taking the masculine role...

Some of the guys with more sex appeal, seducers, cool guys will experience women taking the masculine role and/or being the sexual aggressor.... A lot of the time, people fuck this up, at least i have for years..... Have you ever heard from guys saying "avoid sexting" for example is a...

www.skilledseducer.com

Damn that was a good breakdown. So essentially I got overeager and jumped the gun after she mentioned she was only looking for sex?

 

[Skills]

Damn that was a good breakdown. So essentially I got overeager and jumped the gun after she mentioned she was only looking for sex?

Yeah correct is scenario 2 in the post is kind of a shit text you need to deescalate act normal vs getting exited too much... and kind of qualify her ondirectly other than sex, i gave example in that post exactly same scenario

 

[Chase]

Her: Hey good morning

Me: cute, curvy w sexy seductive eyes… what’s the catch

Her: Aww thanks

Her: I’m good just worn out, what are you looking for on here?

Me: something casual nothing serious, wby

Her: Same nothing serious just nsa

Her: Just wanna get laid. Have some fun and see if we click

Me: agreed we gotta vibe first

Me: how’s ur schedule looking


Unmatched afterwards…

"agreed we gotta vibe first" was what lost it here.

Just because she wants to get laid does not mean she wants a guy who will fall into her frame. Just going along with what she says and agreeing with her is falling into her frame. You need to be able to set your own frame and pull her into that instead. Usually that means saying/doing something unexpected but pleasurable.

So for instance:

Her: Hey good morning​

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You: cute, curvy w sexy seductive eyes… what’s the catch​

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Her: Aww thanks​

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Her: I’m good just worn out, what are you looking for on here?​

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You: something casual nothing serious, wby​

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Her: Same nothing serious just nsa​

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Her: Just wanna get laid. Have some fun and see if we click​

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You: Cool, cool. What's your experience been like on here, finding it easy to click or a struggle​

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Her: Sometimes I find someone to click with but there's a lot to sort through​

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You: Yeah, I know the feeling. A lot of driftwood... so what's the story with being so worn out?​

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Her: lol well I blah blah bah (something about her)​

Women will test you to see how you react to things.

They will throw sex out there to see if you get overeager, or if you start nodding your head up and down -- if so, unattractive, unmatch.

If you can be cool about it without seeming overeager or prudish or weird, and can instead just continue having normal conversation, you pass the test, and the conversation continues.

Chase

 

[DonGately]

Agreed with Chase in my whole life maybe only 2x a girl was very eager for sex and then it actually happened right away. Talking about brand-new girls obvs, not prior bangs.