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The Duo set handled it myself. We talked online but we met at a club.... weird situation.
I thought I was getting myself into trouble going along with the two sets but this one was a case where I managed so initially we decided to meet at a club which usually is filled with bad ratios. But it was decent but still a lot of horny tourists that run around, still a bad ratio.
We decided to meet and when I paid to go in pay to go in and then I saw her with her friend I was not an advantage with social proof because I was going solo at the time of course the question came up with me being alone. But I remained unphased and told them my friend left yesterday for Barcelona or afterward there weren't more tests about me locking social proof as we conversed we had a general get-to-know-each-other normal conversation that as time went on I started noticing the girl that I was talking to of my interest escalated with her finger interlocking into my of course positioning myself away from the friend. But I also maintained "fucking" eye contact" and never broke it before her. As a joke, I call it out too because it was a bit too forced.
From the frontal vision of her friend as we interlocked and locked in position a weird dude was trying to make eye contact and elicit some opening from us not only did I find him very creepy but the girl did as well. He did this multiple times circling back and forth and eventually my girl positioned me to the lock-in position with me having a full visual of her behind while I was leaning towards the wall and her friend at the other side so I was supposed the center of attention, of course, I was dividing my attention 70% to my girl, 30% to her friend but her friend was very understanding and she was not jealous in any way. She joked about looking away when we kissed etc, which every kiss the girl initiated.
There were times that there were different dudes that came up trying to dance with my girl's bestie. I just found the Locking position and did not move too much and not this whole interaction inside of the club there were only two major moves where we were stationary the rest were all either her trying to get her coat going to the bathroom or going to the bar to get a drink. The drink-buying was a reciprocity exchange because initially they had two drinks and they offered me to drink from their cup. Ultimately it was getting low and I decided that it wouldn't be a problem to buy them another drink after a while, after the second move where her friend interacted with some girls or girl group, they absorbed my friend's bestie into their interaction but at the same time, I was relieved a bit because I would have wanted more on one-on-one isolation with her while being very close and had proximity. At some point my girl was doing some very suggestive dance moves. I forgot what I said, BUT
"only if you have protection"
was her response. I told her we could leave after 2 more songs, and while leaving my girl told her bestie that she would be leaving. I told the bestie, 2 hours and a half, but it ended up being longer than
While we were exchanging contacts and her bestie because worries about her safety when I'm going to bring her back etc etc I bought them another two drinks, and a Red Bull for my girl. For the bestie and new girl group, only one individual had a drink, so she would allow me to take my girl with me. I could have ignored buying it but at the same time, I didn't care because I wanted to be experimenting with conspicuous consumption after I bought them the drink there was a small wildcard, and I believe there was some altercation that happened. There was pepper spray in the air and my girl had to run to the bathroom and wash her eye because she has contacts on of course she may be an attention whore a bit with some dude she met earlier coming out from the bathroom, after 3 minutes, we just proceeded to get the taxi and go home in terms of sexual framing it was already set inside the club the music was a very sexual vibe and we kissed we made out I made sure not to go on for 100% a living room for more and she grabbed my cock a couple of times and was that.
Once we got to the apartment building I made out in the elevator a little bit gave her a peck, opened my door, and walked in to wash my hands wash my face, and take off my shirt and my coat. She went to use the bathroom after me and you guys know what happened afterward.
I think a key takeaway is when you're having a great interaction of course past a hook Point there's no real need to provide external value such as buying the drink I don't care, and also I know when to do it. This is a good experiment and experience. Buying it just because there was a long interaction and it's passed a hook point sexually and socially but I won't do it anytime before that also in terms of moving multiple places and experiencing different areas of the venues I intentionally didn't want to move around so much running back and forth like searching like a hungry hound for girls that maybe be open or not. This one was an example of a lock-in. Pre-opening to approach invitation to hooking, but I think the biggest takeaway is not moving so many locations if it's a good hook and not pushing to escalate too much in terms of providing "value" on a social level too, you can when it's needed or appropriate just so you could streamline the interaction but otherwise I wouldn't.
I've been reading a lot of articles about how winter sucks for games I was making a lot of excuses in my head about why it's not a good idea to go out since it's winter and blah blah blah but I told myself I'll push it to two to six more days before I call it for the for the year so
P.S comments and feedbacks are welcome
I thought I was getting myself into trouble going along with the two sets but this one was a case where I managed so initially we decided to meet at a club which usually is filled with bad ratios. But it was decent but still a lot of horny tourists that run around, still a bad ratio.
We decided to meet and when I paid to go in pay to go in and then I saw her with her friend I was not an advantage with social proof because I was going solo at the time of course the question came up with me being alone. But I remained unphased and told them my friend left yesterday for Barcelona or afterward there weren't more tests about me locking social proof as we conversed we had a general get-to-know-each-other normal conversation that as time went on I started noticing the girl that I was talking to of my interest escalated with her finger interlocking into my of course positioning myself away from the friend. But I also maintained "fucking" eye contact" and never broke it before her. As a joke, I call it out too because it was a bit too forced.
From the frontal vision of her friend as we interlocked and locked in position a weird dude was trying to make eye contact and elicit some opening from us not only did I find him very creepy but the girl did as well. He did this multiple times circling back and forth and eventually my girl positioned me to the lock-in position with me having a full visual of her behind while I was leaning towards the wall and her friend at the other side so I was supposed the center of attention, of course, I was dividing my attention 70% to my girl, 30% to her friend but her friend was very understanding and she was not jealous in any way. She joked about looking away when we kissed etc, which every kiss the girl initiated.
There were times that there were different dudes that came up trying to dance with my girl's bestie. I just found the Locking position and did not move too much and not this whole interaction inside of the club there were only two major moves where we were stationary the rest were all either her trying to get her coat going to the bathroom or going to the bar to get a drink. The drink-buying was a reciprocity exchange because initially they had two drinks and they offered me to drink from their cup. Ultimately it was getting low and I decided that it wouldn't be a problem to buy them another drink after a while, after the second move where her friend interacted with some girls or girl group, they absorbed my friend's bestie into their interaction but at the same time, I was relieved a bit because I would have wanted more on one-on-one isolation with her while being very close and had proximity. At some point my girl was doing some very suggestive dance moves. I forgot what I said, BUT
"only if you have protection"
was her response. I told her we could leave after 2 more songs, and while leaving my girl told her bestie that she would be leaving. I told the bestie, 2 hours and a half, but it ended up being longer than
While we were exchanging contacts and her bestie because worries about her safety when I'm going to bring her back etc etc I bought them another two drinks, and a Red Bull for my girl. For the bestie and new girl group, only one individual had a drink, so she would allow me to take my girl with me. I could have ignored buying it but at the same time, I didn't care because I wanted to be experimenting with conspicuous consumption after I bought them the drink there was a small wildcard, and I believe there was some altercation that happened. There was pepper spray in the air and my girl had to run to the bathroom and wash her eye because she has contacts on of course she may be an attention whore a bit with some dude she met earlier coming out from the bathroom, after 3 minutes, we just proceeded to get the taxi and go home in terms of sexual framing it was already set inside the club the music was a very sexual vibe and we kissed we made out I made sure not to go on for 100% a living room for more and she grabbed my cock a couple of times and was that.
Once we got to the apartment building I made out in the elevator a little bit gave her a peck, opened my door, and walked in to wash my hands wash my face, and take off my shirt and my coat. She went to use the bathroom after me and you guys know what happened afterward.
I think a key takeaway is when you're having a great interaction of course past a hook Point there's no real need to provide external value such as buying the drink I don't care, and also I know when to do it. This is a good experiment and experience. Buying it just because there was a long interaction and it's passed a hook point sexually and socially but I won't do it anytime before that also in terms of moving multiple places and experiencing different areas of the venues I intentionally didn't want to move around so much running back and forth like searching like a hungry hound for girls that maybe be open or not. This one was an example of a lock-in. Pre-opening to approach invitation to hooking, but I think the biggest takeaway is not moving so many locations if it's a good hook and not pushing to escalate too much in terms of providing "value" on a social level too, you can when it's needed or appropriate just so you could streamline the interaction but otherwise I wouldn't.
I've been reading a lot of articles about how winter sucks for games I was making a lot of excuses in my head about why it's not a good idea to go out since it's winter and blah blah blah but I told myself I'll push it to two to six more days before I call it for the for the year so
P.S comments and feedbacks are welcome
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