Easy Sex Talk Gambit - Seducing Men Vs Women

[Teevster]

So this is a little gambit you can use, that is efficient, and good in the earlier phases of the interaction to not only stimulate her and hook her in, but introduce the subject of sex, while displaying some female awareness.

The below is a sneak-peak for my coming lay-report (yes! it is true! I haven't posted on in ages!) that I will post in not too long on the GC blog. it will be long and detailed.

Alek: Do you know how you seduce a guy?

Ana: I don’t know (a bit shy, or maybe she doesn’t consciously know).

Alek: well… you touch their dick…

Ana: haha

Alek: but with women it is different. do you know how one seduced a woman?

Ana: no? tell me?

Alek: well you touch…. ANYTHING but her pussy.

Ana: Ahahaha. So true!


Ok cool little gambit to get her warmed up for more juicy stuff. This is slightly stimulating. It also shows some good social awareness and female understanding – this is key and as it also allows to display that I am a potentially good lover (sexual prizing). I also open up for later transitions into more juicy topic – most importantly it introduces the topic of sex in a very light and casual.

Give it a try. And stay tuned for the lay report. I promise it will cover tons of stuff as I will share details + explanation of everything I do and everything that happens as well as cover the way I think in field and my overall strategic thinking.

It will be be longest and most detailed lay report in THE ENTIRE HISTORY OF THIS COMMUNITY.

Keep an eye on the Girlschase blog.

Best

Teevster

 

[Glow]

haha - lets build it out a lil:

You know whats even more interesting...

how gay guys seduce other gay guys..

then do it on her while you outline it - point being its a lot more direct display, they escalate faster etc. talk about how a certain directness is there since no girls are involved - there will always be an attentive caring when chicks are involved blahblah.

i like to move close, firm handshake, directness in the EC, sexual tension holds etc. letting it sizzle while i describe it verbally

they are very direct with their intent..

As you stand there.. he comes in politely saying hello to you with a slightly more FIRM handshake... and a PENETRATING blue-eyed gaze...

Often then at the right moment they hold.. the silence and you FEEL... sexual tension... GROW between you

very quickly their hands might touch you nonchalantly on the side... as you chat on

or go to other parts radically fast - just hint drama from this as if you experienced it

but you feel the intent clearly displayed... direct but subtle..

then slide in side by side w her and shift away to normal. Aka fractionate out.

later repeat the sexual tension nonverbal part to fractionate it in again.

it was my go to transition for awhile to get close and touchy fast as soon as i had created or spotted an its on moment

looking forw to the report

 

[Teevster]

Hey man! good to see you posting.

You know whats even more interesting...

how gay guys seduce other gay guys..

If I am not wrong, you have mentioned this gambit to me multiple times over tea

then do it on her while you outline it - point being its a lot more direct display, they escalate faster etc. talk about how a certain directness is there since no girls are involved - there will always be an attentive caring when chicks are involved blahblah.

Yeah, camouflaging "rough escalation" under the veil of "demonstrations is in my opinion such a powerful and underrated strategy. I myself love using demonstrations that way. They serve as great proxies for frames that could potentially be hard to implement or escalations moves that are prone to trigger resistance (especially in the earlier portions of your interactions).

talk about how a certain directness is there since no girls are involved - there will always be an attentive caring when chicks are involved blahblah.

I like this part since it frames women's restrictive behaviour towards sexuality as "lame" , which in a way could force the opposite behaviour.

For everybody else reading, framing female behaviour as lame can work, but only in certain settings and in this one, it works.

they are very direct with their intent..

As you stand there.. he comes in politely saying hello to you with a slightly more FIRM handshake... and a PENETRATING blue-eyed gaze...

Often then at the right moment they hold.. the silence and you FEEL... sexual tension... GROW between you

very quickly their hands might touch you nonchalantly on the side... as you chat on

or go to other parts radically fast -

just hint drama from this as if you experienced it

but you feel the intent clearly displayed... direct but subtle

And now the floodgate is open for you to deliver any juicy verbals you like while being totally camouflaged through the act of "demonstration", allowing you to avoid any potential resistance or coming off as pushy, needy or reveal too much interest in her.

Indirect game at its finest

then slide in side by side w her and shift away to normal. Aka fractionate out.

later repeat the sexual tension nonverbal part to fractionate it in again.

Good calls.

it was my go to transition for awhile to get close and touchy fast as soon as i had created or spotted an its on moment

And it is a GREAT one. I love it

However, it should get its own post if you ask me (because it deserves it), since it is a pretty different gambit to mine, perhaps not in the way we introduce the thematic of the gambit but the way the core of the gambit is constructed as well as the type of frames it sets. Additionally the states it elicits are very different.

I also feel your gambit is more suited for mid-game/late game, whereas mine is more for the earlier portions of the interaction. You may correct me if I am wrong here.

And you can totally look forward to my next report as it will contain tons of sexual verbals with tons of details.

It's 22 pages long (on word) and almost 12000 words long (which equals 5-6 normals girlchase articles).

Best,
Teevster

 

[Glow]

Thanks for the breakdown, actually gave me some insights

And yup its developed from our talks - partly inspired by a femme fatale gambit you developed at the time

However, it should get its own post if you ask me (because it deserves it), since it is a pretty different gambit to mine, perhaps not in the way we introduce the thematic of the gambit but the way the core of the gambit is constructed as well as the type of frames it sets. Additionally the states it elicits are very different.

I also feel your gambit is more suited for mid-game/late game, whereas mine is more for the earlier portions of the interaction. You may correct me if I am wrong here.

And you can totally look forward to my next report as it will contain tons of sexual verbals with tons of details.

It's 22 pages long (on word) and almost 12000 words long (which equals 5-6 normals girlchase articles).

Best,
Teevster

Ive used it in several ways, one being as a setup for more juicy stuff as you say more mid-end game. Hinting the beast. Often their own response is how lesbians have done it to them which they show on me. Or if theyre within the scene they share actual insight. From there sexual flirting can unfold which will/can turn into a deeper sexual activation.

That said it can also be used early game if delivered as a more fun version to dramatise things and disarm which i find fun. To spice things up a lil once and awhile vs smooth only. In this i extremify the gay escalation more to amp humor more up along with the demonstrated sexuality. Like this the sexually induced effect on her is less potent and other measures must be added to transfer her into real sexual activation as its more something that she pervs on. But it does provide a more natural directness around sex into the convo opening the gates for sextalk.

A tip is that this transfers easily into gay sex themes which allow for more freakish dimensions - which intrigues most girls a lot. A secret world for many. Even those that have gay close friends. Allows for some probing of her desires. And a lot of sexual prizing. For newbies reading - be carefull to adapt it to the girl at hand and her degree of freak-being. If shes vanilla this is not the sorta stuff you bring up.

that said back to OP - just wanted to stir things a lil

Looking forw to your 22 page breakdown

 

[Skills]

I would be careful with gay or bisexual topics. I totally lost a lay with a pansexual stuff, specifically in the usa some women can get disgusted for any misunderstanding or suspicion of bisexuality or gayness when it comes to men

 

[Teevster]

I would be careful with gay or bisexual topics. I totally lost a lay with a pansexual stuff, specifically in the usa some women can get disgusted for any misunderstanding or suspicion of bisexuality or gayness when it comes to men

I agree that this gambit was hit or miss. I myself had great success with the pansexual stuff but only in certain circles (gay clubs in particular, but not only). The large amount of success made me believe it was crazy good back in the days, until it started backfiring on too many occasions and becoming too risky. Hence I have discontinued the original version of the gambit.

That said I have a new version that is far better and less risky - basically saying you are "kind of pansexual" because women's looks, although you appreciate it, is simply not enough for you, and what really intrigues you is her ability to be sexy - and be a sexual person and how this sexual persona allows you to truly connect... and so on. This allows you to avoid the pitfalls that one could have encountered with the initial version.

Nevertheless, I use it only seldomly and usually when the situation allows for it.

Best,
Teevster

 

[Teevster]

@Glow The report was posted on the main GC glow. Here is a link

And yup its developed from our talks - partly inspired by a femme fatale gambit you developed at the time

Good times indeed!

Yes I remember, that was the femme fatale era! This one of my favourite gambits when I need to do a quicky.

Ive used it in several ways, one being as a setup for more juicy stuff as you say more mid-end game. Hinting the beast. Often their own response is how lesbians have done it to them which they show on me. Or if theyre within the scene they share actual insight. From there sexual flirting can unfold which will/can turn into a deeper sexual activation.

Well at least they invest... with sexual material. That's always good.

That said it can also be used early game if delivered as a more fun version to dramatise things and disarm which i find fun. To spice things up a lil once and awhile vs smooth only. In this i extremify the gay escalation more to amp humor more up along with the demonstrated sexuality. Like this the sexually induced effect on her is less potent and other measures must be added to transfer her into real sexual activation as its more something that she pervs on. But it does provide a more natural directness around sex into the convo opening the gates for sextalk.

Alright got you. Using exaggerationas a mean to done it down and made it more fit for the early game.

A tip is that this transfers easily into gay sex themes which allow for more freakish dimensions - which intrigues most girls a lot. A secret world for many. Even those that have gay close friends. Allows for some probing of her desires. And a lot of sexual prizing. For newbies reading - be carefull to adapt it to the girl at hand and her degree of freak-being. If shes vanilla this is not the sorta stuff you bring up.

But if she is like.. "yuck gay sex", it is time to change subject ASAP. I have failed on this in my younger years. Actually not that many girls get turned on by gay sex. This will not discredit the gambit as you use gay sex as a mean and not an end. But I am skeptical in using gay sex as a mean - i.e. as a subject in itself as a mean to convey sexual prizing. Too much chances of it backfiring without actually truly stimulating her, unless she is a total freak with a kink for gay porn or something.

Best,
Teevster

 

[Glow]

Cool guys.
besides the specifics I think i got a lil carried away in a bold moment when speaking about taking it further beyond this gambit.

Good points as to whether its a viable theme area. The reason i got intrigued by it is cause it brings about different parts of sexuality more freak level stuff eg. And beast level displays on intent etc which is VERY present in direct display in that scene. So its a source of inspiration for more vivid stuff. For more spice. Sometimes safe gets boring when in field.

But good pointers to balance it well if one goes there and gauge the receptiveness - i should have been less assertive on the matter.

A point is that typically these sorta gambits are part of a momentum of topics that are not gay oriented and weaseled in to create the dynamics outlined. That way its a lot more balanced - a juicy, dramatising addition to a more normal sex talk route..

 

[POB]

So this is a little gambit you can use, that is efficient, and good in the earlier phases of the interaction to not only stimulate her and hook her in, but introduce the subject of sex, while displaying some female awareness.

This is good and opens up so many possibilities!
- funny lines
- serious topic
- sexual frame
- you can seg with a lot of stuff that estimulates her and puts both of you in a scenario where you are touching each other

Thx for sharing!