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Diet's a really tough thing to maintain in our present civilization.
There are a lot of guys I know whom I respect quite a bit, and very few of them have totally excellent diets.
My diet historically has been pretty awful. I grew up eating too many sweets, which ruined fruits and vegetables for me, and I never ate them. In college I completely subsisted on potato chips, frozen pizzas, breakfast cereal, burger joints, protein shakes, and peanut butter. That's not an exaggeration; that was literally my college diet. I had this belief that since breakfast cereal was fortified, it gave me whatever I was lacking from fruits & vegetables, and that I was fine.
I did not actually eat anything with vegetables in it until my late 20s, when I started eating sandwiches and tacos.
I've found since then that so long as I'm getting a good serving of vegetables at least 3x a week, I get sick a lot less often, and my illnesses are less severe and I recover much faster when I do get ill.
Not getting ill is fairly key to everything else in life. If you want a routine for going out to socialize, or for getting to the gym like clockwork, you do not want a nasty long illness knocking you out and breaking your routine. If you want to progress in your career or business, you do not want multiple stretches of illness knocking you out throughout the year. I've never been a guy who was overly health focused -- but if you don't at least keep a baseline of decent health, everything else in your life suffers.
Therefore, if you're like me, and you don't naturally like vegetables or fruit, here are some ways you can add these to your diet for better health without making it disagreeable to yourself:
I personally don't have much time for food prep. And not every girl you meet is going to be a great cook (many of the girlfriends I've had will just cook me a slab of meat for dinner, because they've given up trying to find a vegetable I'll enjoy). But there are plenty of ways you can add vegetables, fruits, and other healthy snacks like legumes to your life without taking a lot of time or forcing yourself to eat something you dislike.
Once you do, you will generally find you feel a little healthier and more energetic. You will notice it's easier to keep fat weight off, and your weight fluctuates less. You will also get sick less, and the sicknesses you do come down with will be less severe, and last not as long. And that benefits you in everything else you do in your life, from girls to money to being able to enjoy your hobbies without as much downtime.
Weight problems are getting insane in the Western world, largely because no one has time for food prep anymore, and most of the food people are eating is nutrient-poor, satiety poor, and loaded with addictive chemicals. Look for ways to get yourself eating stuff that is tasty, and that you enjoy, that also comes loaded with nutrients and leaves you feeling satisfied so you are not craving more and more food to shovel down your gullet after. It's not a sacrifice -- there is plenty of food you will enjoy that's like this, even if you're super picky, but you have to look for it. And it's worth looking for it, and finding it, and adding it into your life.
More stuff on diet and staying slim here:
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There are a lot of guys I know whom I respect quite a bit, and very few of them have totally excellent diets.
My diet historically has been pretty awful. I grew up eating too many sweets, which ruined fruits and vegetables for me, and I never ate them. In college I completely subsisted on potato chips, frozen pizzas, breakfast cereal, burger joints, protein shakes, and peanut butter. That's not an exaggeration; that was literally my college diet. I had this belief that since breakfast cereal was fortified, it gave me whatever I was lacking from fruits & vegetables, and that I was fine.
I did not actually eat anything with vegetables in it until my late 20s, when I started eating sandwiches and tacos.
I've found since then that so long as I'm getting a good serving of vegetables at least 3x a week, I get sick a lot less often, and my illnesses are less severe and I recover much faster when I do get ill.
Not getting ill is fairly key to everything else in life. If you want a routine for going out to socialize, or for getting to the gym like clockwork, you do not want a nasty long illness knocking you out and breaking your routine. If you want to progress in your career or business, you do not want multiple stretches of illness knocking you out throughout the year. I've never been a guy who was overly health focused -- but if you don't at least keep a baseline of decent health, everything else in your life suffers.
Therefore, if you're like me, and you don't naturally like vegetables or fruit, here are some ways you can add these to your diet for better health without making it disagreeable to yourself:
- If you need fast food, find some good sandwich shops. Instead of McDonald's or Burger King, get in the habit of going to Subway or Au Bon Pain. Or find some other sandwich shops around you if those are too pedestrian for you (I'm very fine with the chains; however, I have also found some great standalone sandwich shops over the years in various cities as well). At burger joints, often all you're getting is a leaf of lettuce and a slice of tomato (if that), and then you're cramming down French fries, the single worst (but also... most delicious?) food in the world. At a sandwich shop you're getting all kinds of things: pickles, onions, cucumber, olives, lettuce, tomatoes. And generally because the sandwich is the whole meal, it is larger, and there's a lot more volume of vegetables in there too. This shouldn't be suffering... just keep trying different shops and sandwiches until you find some you really enjoy. Then it becomes fun eating vegetables.
- Also, look for Mexican restaurants that sell good tacos. Don't go if you can't stop yourself from eating chimichangas, of course, but if you can go and get a few good tacos with a lot of vegetables in them, Mexican restaurants can be another awesome, tasty way to get a lot of vegetables too. Don't forget the guacamole and beans.
- You can prepare tacos at home with minimal prep time. Buy some tortillas at the store, buy some mayonnaise and yogurt (which you can mix together in equal proportions for a nice white sauce), get lettuce, tomatoes, chicken, cheese, and guacamole, and take 15 minutes to chop the lettuce, tomato, and chicken, and pan fry the chicken. Voila, you now have something very close to a Rubio's chicken taco, from the comfort of home. Tacos are quick to make, and you can make them with whatever ingredients you want (search online for recipes). Easy way to get your vegetables at home if you aren't into eating vegetables by themselves.
- Buy a sandwich maker for home. There are various kinds of sandwich makers you can buy. Every single guy should have a panini press, in my opinion When you buy bread, make sure it's whole wheat (much, much healthier than white bread, which nobody should ever eat if he can help it; whole bread = all the nutrients, and good to eat; white bread = nutrient-deprived, basically stomach filler / empty calories). And get thick bread that won't flatten in your sandwich maker. Then put all the ingredients you want inside (make sure there are plenty of vegetables) and make your sandwich. Optional: a bread machine to make your own bread, and a small grill to grill your meat on, which is much healthier than pan-frying as well as quicker than oven roasting.
- If you have more time to cook, find vegetable dishes you enjoy. Potatoes are an easy one to start with, since most people like them, and they're easy to prepare. Baked potatoes, rosemary potatoes, etc. Potatoes are healthy, so long as they're not fried (like French fries or potato chips).
- Finish (or throw out) your unhealthy snacks and don't buy more, but always have a bowl of apples. Or other fruit, if you like them -- grapes, bananas, etc. I find when I have other snacks in the house, I can't motivate myself to eat apples. But when there's no junk food there, and I want something sweet after a meal, or I'm hungry between meal times, suddenly that apple doesn't seem so bad. You have to control your environment a little bit to do so -- just don't have the unhealthy snacks there, but do have healthy snacks. And look for snacks you enjoy that are healthy... yogurt, apples, peanuts, cashews, all are good, very healthy snacks. Trail mix is nice to keep on-hand, too (and if you want, you can cheat a bit by mixing some chocolate chips in there. A bowl of peanuts, cashews, walnuts, almonds, and chocolate chips is still way, way healthier than a Snickers bar).
I personally don't have much time for food prep. And not every girl you meet is going to be a great cook (many of the girlfriends I've had will just cook me a slab of meat for dinner, because they've given up trying to find a vegetable I'll enjoy). But there are plenty of ways you can add vegetables, fruits, and other healthy snacks like legumes to your life without taking a lot of time or forcing yourself to eat something you dislike.
Once you do, you will generally find you feel a little healthier and more energetic. You will notice it's easier to keep fat weight off, and your weight fluctuates less. You will also get sick less, and the sicknesses you do come down with will be less severe, and last not as long. And that benefits you in everything else you do in your life, from girls to money to being able to enjoy your hobbies without as much downtime.
Weight problems are getting insane in the Western world, largely because no one has time for food prep anymore, and most of the food people are eating is nutrient-poor, satiety poor, and loaded with addictive chemicals. Look for ways to get yourself eating stuff that is tasty, and that you enjoy, that also comes loaded with nutrients and leaves you feeling satisfied so you are not craving more and more food to shovel down your gullet after. It's not a sacrifice -- there is plenty of food you will enjoy that's like this, even if you're super picky, but you have to look for it. And it's worth looking for it, and finding it, and adding it into your life.
More stuff on diet and staying slim here:
The Girls Chase Guide to Getting & Staying Slim
If you want to slim down for good, lose the fad diet. Don't even exercise (not for this anyway). Instead, do this: cut your portions, and cut bad foods. We were talking over on the forum about how people in general have gotten a lot fatter. In fact it is to the point that people often do not...
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