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Eliminate compliments from game? Relationships better with unclear feelings?

Eiswein

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Is better to eliminate compliments and only use non verbal language to communicate intention, i feel like i have more sucess without compliments at all, i feel like my relationships are better when i dont express feelings
 
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ulrich

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Perhaps in your case but I don’t think that’s a universal rule.

The last year I have been struggling mostly with attainability.
Girls think I am unreachable and too much of a player. Compliments help me balance that.
 
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cruiser

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If you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan :)

just be genuine you don’t need to go overboard with compliments. Just make your compliments different. Instead of
“Oh I like your shirt”
Maybe:
“Ya know I haven’t seen a cool shirt like that in a while it’s hard to find such treasures you might have a nack for finding good things ;)
 
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