Emotional objective - How to look good all the time

[readjusting]

Let just say that when I interact with someone, I have an emotional objective. It's unconscious.
People had a emotional objective all the time. I am the same. You're the same.

To summarize, I either want to get something or give something. Same applies to other people.
These are looking good, if done in moderation.
- Give sympathy (e.g. listening to her)
- Give status (e.g. telling she's good)
- Get agreement (e.g. pointing out something)
- Get knowledge (e.g. being curious)
- Solve my problem
- Solve their problem
- Advance towards a logical objective

These are neutral.
- Give/Get compliance
- Give/Get respect
- Give/Get attention: Some people try to get attention for no purpose, but I acknowledge they're just like that.
- Find out other person's objective
- Get people to like me. Get approval.
- Give approval.
- Give/Get approval
- Give knowledge.

These are looking bad.
- Get sympathy (e.g. complaining)
- Get status (e.g. tooling)
- Have no objective (e.g. going to a girl and saying something random without an objective)

This could apply to both cold approach and social circle game.