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I thought I would do a little write up on end game, an element of seduction that I believe a lot of guys forget to consider. At least, certainly from my own personal experience in seduction from when I was starting off its something that took me a while to actually respect and start including in my game. It's something that I just glossed over and expected to happen naturally.
There is a plethora of information on seduction around the internet, none a better source than girlschase and many guys learn all these techniques and use them on girls without achieving any actual desirable results. It is often their belief that their technique is not good enough or that the girl just wasn't into them, because nothing happened.
Often the case with lack of results is not that you did anything wrong during the mid game, and most likely if you executed the techniques you have been learning, the girl was probably feeling you.
But because you hadn't planned your end game and its logistics, nothing concrete happened. You didn't finish correctly and seal the deal. The finish has to come from you, the guy. It doesn't happen naturally, you can't assume it will. Logistics must be considered.
Firstly you must know what you want from a girl and when. Is it sex, tonight, sex on the first date, a phone number, a same day date, whatever. This obviously will alter between different girls and their/your logistics, but during seduction you must screen her logistics and come to a conclusion of the viable approaches you have. Your seduction must then be geared towards achieving this result, the end game and finish. Too many guys just love having their ego stroked, they play with girls, get them all ready and then... nothing. You have to know what you want from her and work towards it.
Always execute your seduction with a concrete end result in mind. Don't get caught up in creating correct reactions from a girl, these are great but remember you have not won the game yet.
Its very obvious for many but I do believe beginners get caught up in learning how to make a girl like you but simply don't work enough on how to logically and logistically achieve their desired result.
There is a plethora of information on seduction around the internet, none a better source than girlschase and many guys learn all these techniques and use them on girls without achieving any actual desirable results. It is often their belief that their technique is not good enough or that the girl just wasn't into them, because nothing happened.
Often the case with lack of results is not that you did anything wrong during the mid game, and most likely if you executed the techniques you have been learning, the girl was probably feeling you.
But because you hadn't planned your end game and its logistics, nothing concrete happened. You didn't finish correctly and seal the deal. The finish has to come from you, the guy. It doesn't happen naturally, you can't assume it will. Logistics must be considered.
Firstly you must know what you want from a girl and when. Is it sex, tonight, sex on the first date, a phone number, a same day date, whatever. This obviously will alter between different girls and their/your logistics, but during seduction you must screen her logistics and come to a conclusion of the viable approaches you have. Your seduction must then be geared towards achieving this result, the end game and finish. Too many guys just love having their ego stroked, they play with girls, get them all ready and then... nothing. You have to know what you want from her and work towards it.
Always execute your seduction with a concrete end result in mind. Don't get caught up in creating correct reactions from a girl, these are great but remember you have not won the game yet.
Its very obvious for many but I do believe beginners get caught up in learning how to make a girl like you but simply don't work enough on how to logically and logistically achieve their desired result.
