Hey guys
Been reading GC for some time and really appreciate the stuff. Believe I go about the things in similar way(s), always looking for more angles to tackle things. Love it.
But here's the thing. Can't seem to find (maybe I missed it) the reason for a LTR from a top guy's perspective. I've read the purpose articles btw.
What I'm going for? Maybe a bit more than just a reason for a LTR. Maybe I'm not quite sold on girls are just silly and cute/ don't be bitter mentalities bedsides for your own mental health.
So, a regular guys starts learning seduction, it's horrible, we all know it. After some of time he developed abundance mentality and after some more he developed absolute abundance. Meanwhile he also upped his lifestyle and finances for good, practically every aspect of his life to the highest he wants, doesn't have to be a millionaire. Healthy, goes to gym, absolute abundance. So why would he be in a relationship, even with the highest caliber girl if he can do and did all this by himself?
What can she offer that he cannot have already? 2-7 year lasting love? Is that it?
And another thing, which may sound bitter but I swear it isn't, I just don't understand so that's why I'm asking.
Women take care of themselves, but is it more on the outside than in right? They don't work on their game, cause they're the ones waiting. So they may work on their careers and looks and hobbies. The same as men. Without inner or outer game. But their life is harder than men's life cause it's harder to be a woman?
So when she cheats on you it's usually your fault cause she communicated in her way which you didn't get (but you did get 50x before some other signals..), when she leaves you the same, when she doesn't take accountability also your fault, you just be in charge of her and the relationship (and your life)... Where do they take responsibility? If she doesn't give a birth to a baby, her only responsibility is the burden of being a woman?
And we must feel sorry for them cause we're stronger and less complicated biology?
Hope you see how this ties to that first question with what's the point of having an LTR in the end..
Again, not bitter, just trying to find the right logic. This seems to be the missing piece. If someone has it or sees something I don't, I'd be glad to hear a different perspective.
English is not my mother language so..
LK
Been reading GC for some time and really appreciate the stuff. Believe I go about the things in similar way(s), always looking for more angles to tackle things. Love it.
But here's the thing. Can't seem to find (maybe I missed it) the reason for a LTR from a top guy's perspective. I've read the purpose articles btw.
What I'm going for? Maybe a bit more than just a reason for a LTR. Maybe I'm not quite sold on girls are just silly and cute/ don't be bitter mentalities bedsides for your own mental health.
So, a regular guys starts learning seduction, it's horrible, we all know it. After some of time he developed abundance mentality and after some more he developed absolute abundance. Meanwhile he also upped his lifestyle and finances for good, practically every aspect of his life to the highest he wants, doesn't have to be a millionaire. Healthy, goes to gym, absolute abundance. So why would he be in a relationship, even with the highest caliber girl if he can do and did all this by himself?
What can she offer that he cannot have already? 2-7 year lasting love? Is that it?
And another thing, which may sound bitter but I swear it isn't, I just don't understand so that's why I'm asking.
Women take care of themselves, but is it more on the outside than in right? They don't work on their game, cause they're the ones waiting. So they may work on their careers and looks and hobbies. The same as men. Without inner or outer game. But their life is harder than men's life cause it's harder to be a woman?
So when she cheats on you it's usually your fault cause she communicated in her way which you didn't get (but you did get 50x before some other signals..), when she leaves you the same, when she doesn't take accountability also your fault, you just be in charge of her and the relationship (and your life)... Where do they take responsibility? If she doesn't give a birth to a baby, her only responsibility is the burden of being a woman?
And we must feel sorry for them cause we're stronger and less complicated biology?
Hope you see how this ties to that first question with what's the point of having an LTR in the end..
Again, not bitter, just trying to find the right logic. This seems to be the missing piece. If someone has it or sees something I don't, I'd be glad to hear a different perspective.
English is not my mother language so..
LK
