hi all. i stumbled on rsd 1 year ago and just started hitting the clubs. when i talk to girls i can easily start conversations and make it man to woman. but i have a very hard time getting from the basic man to woman vibe to the kiss or sex. when i escalate it do not seem like theres any sexual tension. they allow me to escalate with touch but i can never get the kiss and they dont seem to be really turned on. how can i change that
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Well this is a common issue, but a very vague question. What would help us more is if you shared a specific experience. Otherwise we can only link you to articles https://www.girlschase.com/content/escalation-windows
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Ok, so a few things
EYE CONTACT needs to have that powerful bang to it, so you need to get "eye fucks" for lack of a better term
Entering her proximity in a cheeky way, with a big smile. Get your lower body in closer than your face, as your face is the MOST intimidating part of you, and any leaning forward is an aggressive posture.
Touch LOW, hip, belt line, waist. Rub with your thumbs.
Lean into her ear, change the tone of your voice to a lower sexier tone.
Don't be afraid to knock her off balance a little bit as you step into her ear, cuz then she'll grab onto you to keep listening.
Be very very very playful, then switch to sexy, then back and forth, showing a naive childlike side then a sexy smouldering side
Speak slower, much like in manga when they enunciate each syllable, you want to draw things out, introduce pauses, and you want to lean into emotions that come up, fuel the flames of drama a bit.
Now obviously only do this to girls that are at least 7 out of 10 interested in you. Like, shes lingering near you, eyeing you up, and stepping in your direction, that sort of thing. You don't do it cold
EYE CONTACT needs to have that powerful bang to it, so you need to get "eye fucks" for lack of a better term
Entering her proximity in a cheeky way, with a big smile. Get your lower body in closer than your face, as your face is the MOST intimidating part of you, and any leaning forward is an aggressive posture.
Touch LOW, hip, belt line, waist. Rub with your thumbs.
Lean into her ear, change the tone of your voice to a lower sexier tone.
Don't be afraid to knock her off balance a little bit as you step into her ear, cuz then she'll grab onto you to keep listening.
Be very very very playful, then switch to sexy, then back and forth, showing a naive childlike side then a sexy smouldering side
Speak slower, much like in manga when they enunciate each syllable, you want to draw things out, introduce pauses, and you want to lean into emotions that come up, fuel the flames of drama a bit.
Now obviously only do this to girls that are at least 7 out of 10 interested in you. Like, shes lingering near you, eyeing you up, and stepping in your direction, that sort of thing. You don't do it cold
