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Cody Lyans

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Talking is sex, the pause between words is sex, touching her hand is sex.
Her interest in your eyes is sex.

This mindset used at the right time can get you ready and prepared to make your moves in slow incremental but potent ways. Just adding the perception of this is sex or sexual, can turn a simple hi, into something more intense.


Imagine a mango. The tree is trying to spread its offspring, so what does it do? It adds sugar and what others like around what it wants, turning the seed into a fruit. The fruit develops flesh and bright color, a delicious scent etc. As you eat the flesh in a way you are kind of having sex with it, doing what it wants.

In the same way, women have a seed, it's probably some dumb aim like I wanna talk more with a guy. But along you come and you focus on the nice stuff around it until what do you know you are talking.
From a certain point of view, that is sensual. Even if your attention is brought back to the seed being the point, the fruit is there.

The point is this... Mundane intentions are spiced up by ambiguous ones. Girls give off potential like a plant fruits. You want to enjoy them as they are.

Further you want to start doing the reverse... As she shows her simple aim, keep your fulfillment of that away and make yourself tempting anyway.

You don't want to be logical, you want to be simple and draw attention to the pleasure of influence.

Sell her on the back and forth of influence until she loses track of the seed, loses track of what is sex and isn't.

I know this is cryptic but just look at it this way. YOUR WORLD VIEW IS TRANSFERRED and you must be ignorant to the banal so it doesn't win in your head. That creates a dynamic where you are more likely to generate good sensual moments.
 

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I am taking my time to run business mind, reality mind and sex mind, while interacting with women during business meetings.

When you noted that everything is sex or sexual, you're right.

Women like to jump between realities and i been talking about this topic for awhile. Shades of grey. LEarning and i will be get good at it. So if necessary, i fuck women both business-y, reality-y and dating-y. All 3 dimensions of reality, and not to mention fourth dimensional chess, trolling and then, self aware about it, which is another level but not really a level.

It is what it is. Abit ugly, dirty but women like it dirty. :)
 

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Reading this, i just realised my missing piece in all this - myself within that access youre describing.

The true creative source.

Considering the nuances of creating true refined level temptation got me there.

*Raises glas to salute*

Advanced stuff indeed ;) You deserve a 1000 likes from me for this post

I have things to add but will let it boil a lil.

*Leaves to chain-up*

Edit:
Great demo of it by Sean Connery & Eunice Gayson

 
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Glow

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another equally powerful mindset

This is not sex. theres no sex. Theres just the genuine you and i here.

"Control" of when something is not sex is another powerful mindset ones you have everything is sex down.

This can empower seducers immensely during interactions where girls loose this power of draw

It invites for control and counter balance to everything is sex.

it can shift the field of engagement to different motivations for seductions, layer the levels.

it says maybe the fruit is more than sex. it enables variation in seeds from us.

it can refine seductive moments immensely.

It enables the control side of engagements.

try truly saying it to yourself when engaging. see what happens when the motivation changes. And what then arises...
 

Cody Lyans

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Not, there is no sex. That is too platonic like you are running away from sex as a bad word. But YES you can also use a sex is no big deal frame and state that sex is just chill and natural along with it.

Or say, people make too much of a big deal,

That creates indifference

However the reason why you make it all about sex IS SO THAT YOU INJECT sex into the framework and let it marinate everything. You don't want to be so A sexual that you are a talk monkey. Or a monkey that became human just to talk. Nono sex is real, it exists and it is all around. It is not a big deal sure, but it's in every word.


The strongest evidence is that prejudice exists around the opposite sex,
That exists cuz a person's lens is sex from which they are judging value. Point is do not over think it. Do not back down. Like sex, enjoy the fact that all of it is part of it
 

Glow

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Hm true - its a bit too evil genius like..

Indifference angle is much better. thanks. But that one sorta lies within everything is sexual already.

Part of my thought was to have another mindset that would refocus on other sides of the seduction. Looking into her genuineness etc. Using mindsets as a tool. But could have been sharper.
 
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Hector Papi Castillo

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Title reminded me of the quote

Everything is about sex. Except for sex. Sex is about power.

Every action you perform can be laced with sexuality. Even your stillness is sexuality.

And that sexuality is your power. Your power leading hers and her giving you her power is what turns her on.

As you say, she has some silly idea like "ohh i wanna keep talking to him," but then you run game and now she's on your hook (and happy to be).

Sell her on the back and forth of influence until she loses track of the seed, loses track of what is sex and isn't.

That's a dope ass quote. Got shivers when I read it. Helps that I'm listening to some epic music. In my head is this imagery of a man doing magic tricks and some girl getting all doe-eyed over it. She can't keep up with his slick hands and his "seed" is always hidden in the next trick.

Hector
 

Cody Lyans

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Hm true - its a bit too evil genius like..

Indifference angle is much better. thanks. But that one sorta lies within everything is sexual already.

Part of my thought was to have another mindset that would refocus on other sides of the seduction. Looking into her genuineness etc. Using mindsets as a tool. But could have been sharper.

It is important it feels a bit uncomfortable, that it does not play to nicely nicey stuff too much. It is a very raw and brutal truth in a way. It is not necessary, but it is powerful to see things more this way, that's why it is in advanced, you have to kinda burden it on your own.

What got me thinking bout it again was my friend, she made me realize this concept was true by the dudes she was into and I was like... Yuh I got you

It's the same thing as a guy liking girls in short shorts. Ain't no fancy words to explain away the truth their bro, you eye fuck em cuz u can. Saaaazme thing, cept girls eye fuck the dude who feels the sex in the air, cuz that's the guy it feels good to do it with, same deal
 
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