Exactly when to kiss a girl - Kiss test

[leadingbealwaysido]

Hey peeps,

Whats your guys process to test the girl if she is ready for the kiss.

The famous kiss test created by Eban Pagan was basically touch her hair a little, if she accepts she is most likely down to do a kiss too.

Would love to hear you guy's approach on the matter.

 

[KJ Francis]

Not something that will always happen, but related - if she breaks eye contact by looking down (submission), I will instantly escalate from whatever point we’re at in that moment, and it’s always well received.

 

[Kaida]

Hey peeps,

Whats your guys process to test the girl if she is ready for the kiss.

The famous kiss test created by Eban Pagan was basically touch her hair a little, if she accepts she is most likely down to do a kiss too.

Would love to hear you guy's approach on the matter.

I think I read this on GC but not sure:

1. Let some tension rise while giving her relaxed eye contact

2. Look at her lips for a second

3. Look back at her eyes

If she looks at your lips at any point of this, she’s ready for the kiss.

I’ll sometimes do this a few times randomly throughout the interaction, to gets her subconsciously thinking about it.

 

[Will_V]

The easiest way is to simply get your mouth near hers, and as @Kaida said glance at her lips. As soon as she starts thinking about the kiss she'll either impulsively move toward it (lifting up her chin, opening her mouth slightly, leaning up etc) or draw away.

There's nothing in seduction that requires knowing beforehand if it's going to work or not, whether it's kissing, taking her clothes off, etc, because all you have to do is move toward it and tease it and you'll get the signals. That requires being able to handle tension of course but well that's your job.

And even if you want to kiss her, it's 100x better ime to make her think about it, want it, and have it teased on her until she's all hot and worked up. That way she may even go lunging in herself if she can't handle the tension, and that kind of enthusiasm is a lot of fun and a lot better for the rest of the seduction.

Edit: realized I didn't answer the question very well. When do you know she's ready? Sometimes you just try and see by moving closer. But when she gives you some variation of the doggy dinner bowl look you can be pretty sure things are ready to move forward. There's also a kind of 'activated' appearance that girls get when they are primed for things to get physical, it's hard to describe but it's like a kind of pent up energy in her body language and a locked attention, as if she's anticipating something.

 

[leadingbealwaysido]

And even if you want to kiss her, it's 100x better ime to make her think about it, want it, and have it teased on her until she's all hot and worked up. That way she may even go lunging in herself if she can't handle the tension, and that kind of enthusiasm is a lot of fun and a lot better for the rest of the seduction.

Yeah, get it Also I have noticed that if you wait too long the attraction can be lost also, so how do you make sure to kiss her at the perfect time, and not waiting too long as so she thinks you are not interested?

Hopefully my question make sense?

 

[Will_V]

Yeah, get it Also I have noticed that if you wait too long the attraction can be lost also, so how do you make sure to kiss her at the perfect time, and not waiting too long as so she thinks you are not interested?

Hopefully my question make sense?

If you are teasing her and working the tension she's not going to suddenly think you're not interested. That would only happen if she was giving signs and you were sitting there doing nothing. Or if she sensed you were afraid or something.

Seduction is a dance, and you are leading. If you want her to go to the left, you don't just hope that she's ready, grab her and yank her there. You subtly shift your balance in a way that she can feel and begin to anticipate the movement, and smoothly begin to move with gentle pressure. She shouldn't be way out ahead or behind you, she shouldn't be going around with no idea of what's going to happen. She should always be right there with you, ready to move and anticipating you.

If you're sitting there with your mouth three inches away giving her bedroom eyes, she's not thinking 'oh maybe he's not interested'. If you then just sit there like a statue or with a deadpan face, she might feel awkward and pull away, but again it's not because she thinks you're not interested. It's because things were awkward.

If you want to hold the tension, you have to stay in a 'pressurized' situation while still expressing yourself freely and not freezing. Smiling a little, admiring her eyes and lips, moving slightly forward and backward, caressing some other part of her body. She should feel like you are freely expressing yourself and enjoying yourself, so that she wants to do the same - which in this case, because of the unbearable tension, is to kiss you.

There is no 'perfect time' for a kiss, there's just the question of when the tension reaches a high point.

PS you should read this too: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-kiss-girl-no-ones-ever-kissed-her

I don't think the types of kiss in there are so distinct but it's very informative.