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Something I’ve used a few times and like just how it all works; this can be done whether you have a date planned with a girl right then and there or whether you were just going to go out or run to the gym or out shopping and might run into a new girl there.
The trick here is to have some excuse to drop back to your place: you meet a girl at the gym and hang out with her afterwards> “I just have to stop and change out of my shirt real quick” ; girl from class> “oh hang on I just gotta drop my backpack off at my place”; girl out grocery shopping> “hold on gotta leave my milk home before I go back out”. If you have some idea of what it could be from beforehand it makes your job easier and saves you from having to come up with it later.
After this, you’ll be with the girl and can have her just come back and wait in the living room or look at your place or whatever and play it from there by ear. You might just escalate with her right then and there if you’re getting the signs; or you have the option of dropping your stuff off, going on date with her nearby to build rapport and bit of comfort and then when you do pull her back home it’s a familiar place and she’s comfortable faster.
Admittedly this takes a bit of creativity, and that’s why it helps if you have an idea from beforehand… have had a few opportunities to use one of these where I couldn’t think of my excuse to run back home and pull her along too (until after the girl left).
But yeah can be useful
Just takes a little excuse or whatever random occurrence for you to meet a new girl; just in that way pulling a girl home should be something like that: that just happens because of some silly reason or bit of serendipity.
The trick here is to have some excuse to drop back to your place: you meet a girl at the gym and hang out with her afterwards> “I just have to stop and change out of my shirt real quick” ; girl from class> “oh hang on I just gotta drop my backpack off at my place”; girl out grocery shopping> “hold on gotta leave my milk home before I go back out”. If you have some idea of what it could be from beforehand it makes your job easier and saves you from having to come up with it later.
After this, you’ll be with the girl and can have her just come back and wait in the living room or look at your place or whatever and play it from there by ear. You might just escalate with her right then and there if you’re getting the signs; or you have the option of dropping your stuff off, going on date with her nearby to build rapport and bit of comfort and then when you do pull her back home it’s a familiar place and she’s comfortable faster.
Admittedly this takes a bit of creativity, and that’s why it helps if you have an idea from beforehand… have had a few opportunities to use one of these where I couldn’t think of my excuse to run back home and pull her along too (until after the girl left).
But yeah can be useful
Just takes a little excuse or whatever random occurrence for you to meet a new girl; just in that way pulling a girl home should be something like that: that just happens because of some silly reason or bit of serendipity.
